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Should Single Guy Become MM To Find Happiness With OW
OK, I`ve Had Enough
So, maybe I should pretend to be married and pursue "the other woman?" Then I would have the most dedicated (gullible? ) woman a man could possibly have. And I would never be alone again.
There seems to be no shortage of just one group that seems to be in total bliss with their partner....the other woman!!! (OW) Single guys everywhere should take the hint
Fail Safe Plan:
Just pretend to be married, cry on some gullible gals shoulder about the b*tch wife and voila! Man, you got it made. Some gal that will kiss your arse any day , any way. Just call your shots baby, it don`t come no easier than this.
Oh! you gotta spend holidays alone...or you will give yourself away; let the cat out the bag.
I'll admit that there have been women that I only wanted to have sex with, no dating, no meeting the "in-laws". Pretending to be married would go along way towards a sex only relationship.
Also some women consider a married guy to be safe as far as stalking and such.
But I've never tried it....the web we weeved would get pretty complex.
Just pretend to be married, cry on some gullible gals shoulder about the b*tch wife and voila! Man, you got it made. Some gal that will kiss your arse any day , any way. Just call your shots baby, it don`t come no easier than this.
What is the problem with people these days? How could you live with yourself knowing you are lying to a woman to get sex from her?
I guess you both would deserve each other as far as her being ok being with a married man, but don't lie to the other women out there looking for honesty. Actually the "OW" is entitled to honesty too.
If you're that desperate and want a sex only relationship, shell out some money for a prostitute, don't break women's hearts and seduce them with lies because you're too broke or cheap for a prostitute and would prefer to treat a woman like one with your lies.
Yup, it's easy to get things by lying, it's harder to do things the right, moral way, it's scary you could be so content doing it the wrong way. I hope your victims will figure you out before you get them to bed or once they do find out the truth that you're an imposter, that they will get revenge on you and you won't be left so happy.
don't break women's hearts and seduce them with lies
Well, somehow I still don`t get it. If a man sounding off about his miserable wife will seduce a woman, and this man doesn`t really have a wife....isn`t that a win, win situation?
Well, somehow I still don`t get it. If a man sounding off about his miserable wife will seduce a woman, and this man doesn`t really have a wife....isn`t that a win, win situation?
I mean you could fall in love and get married:
FOR REAL
Think about it. That would mean that at some point, the woman would have to find out you are not really married. Do you think she would still like you the same after a big lie like that? It's not pretending you make a bigger income or other lies, that is a pretty big lie to pretend you are married and complain about your "wife" to her.
You would have to have elaborate stories, how you met, how long you've been married, about the inlaws, a big big web of lies. Imagine her reaction when the day comes she finds out all those hours, months or years you've spent together were all lies.
Do you think she'd still love you and want to marry you, that she could feel in her heart that she could believe anything else that ever came out of your mouth? Or would she hate you with every fiber of her being for duping her like she was a gaulible peice of nothing who you tricked into kissing your lying asss?
I thought it would be more like a romance novel. The guy finally confesses his plot and explained that he was just a single guy looking for love and the only one`s around who were scoring were married guys hitting on single women.
So, in desperation he decided that rather than live life alone he would put aside his nobel morals and then when success comes he never thought he would be so in love.
And then it is a happy ending. They both get married and live happily thereafter.
I mean, if she thinks she is bonking a married guy....she ought to give him a break for his slight indescretion.
I'll take your post as the sulky post of a single guy who doesn't have a lot of success with women, therefore you conclude that if you pretend to be a MM you would have more success? Eeeeeeh, wrongo! MM are successful, because they don't reek of desperation. They are relaxed, because their bed is made, all they have to do now is look around and find someone better. Unless you learn how to adopt this attitude I'd say the gullible bitches will still not be interested in you. Heheheheh.
Last edited by loony; 27th December 2005 at 11:24 AM..
I mean, if she thinks she is bonking a married guy....she ought to give him a break for his slight indescretion.
So you have low standards for who YOU would like to marry? If you marry a woman who was with a married man, she could be with another married man once you tie the knot. Also, you said that you would tell her your wife is a bitch and cry on her shoulder. This would get sympathy from many women, including those who would ordinarily stay away from married men. It would appear that there would be a good possibility the marriage was or will be ending so that there would be a chance for her.
However, once she discovered all of it was a lie, any woman worth marrying would call it quits. You'd have to settle for a real loser if she still loved you. In that case, you'd be a match but the thing is, there is a chance that she'd fall in the majority of women who would not be ok with it and it would be selfish of you to gamble with a woman's heart hoping she'd be that loser you're after.
Quote Loony MM are successful, because they don't reek of desperation. They are relaxed, because their bed is made, all they have to do now is look around and find someone better.
My thoughts exactly. At least that is what women percieve. So, if I have to compete against the married men for the single women then I`m going to pull out all the stops. All is fair in love and war. And it appears married men are busy looking for someone better.
What is the problem with people these days? How could you live with yourself knowing you are lying to a woman to get sex from her?
I guess you both would deserve each other as far as her being ok being with a married man, but don't lie to the other women out there looking for honesty. Actually the "OW" is entitled to honesty too.
If you're that desperate and want a sex only relationship, shell out some money for a prostitute, don't break women's hearts and seduce them with lies because you're too broke or cheap for a prostitute and would prefer to treat a woman like one with your lies.
Yup, it's easy to get things by lying, it's harder to do things the right, moral way, it's scary you could be so content doing it the wrong way. I hope your victims will figure you out before you get them to bed or once they do find out the truth that you're an imposter, that they will get revenge on you and you won't be left so happy.
This post is funny. It is suggesting that using a prostitute for sex is more moral than lying to a girl to get into her pants, without considering the fact that both have the same moral equivalence. It is like arguing, it is better to use a gun than a knife to kill someone - it doesn't matter what you use, it is all bad.
This guy is right on. The movie, 'Hitch', and on some TV shows, this script happens allot in the movies, where someone is complaining or crying about their wife in order to get someone to feel sorry for them and get laid.
BTW: The TV show was Divorce court. The judge threw the book at the guy and the wife won everything when his witness acted up by saying that.
Any woman that would date a married man is not somebody I would want anyway. Why would you want a woman that screwed up.
I think it's a great match up. It would remove lying men, and women who are ok with dating married men, out of the dating pool. They are meant for each other.
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Should Single Guy Become MM To Find Happiness With OW
) woman a man could possibly have. And I would never be alone again. 
MM are successful, because they don't reek of desperation. They are relaxed, because their bed is made, all they have to do now is look around and find someone better. Unless you learn how to adopt this attitude I'd say the gullible bitches will still not be interested in you. Heheheheh. 
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