[Jones19]

Well i met this girl when i was out Saturday night she is drop dead gorgeous she is kinda out of my league i keep thinking to myself but she likes me .

Anyways we met up Sunday for a bit and i took her out last night we held hands and kissed and talked and got to know each other we had a great time.

We ain't going out-as such yet because she goes away next Tuesday for 2 weeks and then when she gets back that day i go away for 2 weeks sodz law i know.

so we decided just to kinda go out but wait until the hols are over.

Anywaz the reason for my thread is its her birthday next Monday and i don't know what to do should i buy her something? I'm gonna get a card but I'm not sure about the present idea.

I thought about on Sunday taking her out for the day and saying this is kinda my birthday present to you does that sound OK?


What would you do?

[westernxer]

I'd slip out of town and come back the day after.

Just send her a text message saying happy birthday. No gift, no special date... not this early.

[Merin]

I think it's fine to get her a bday card and take her out to lunch on Sunday...

[Cecelius]

Agreed with westernxer. A pleasant nod, email or whatever ("..by the way, happy birthday...") in recognition, nothing else. Anything more will only hurt things

[alphamale]

Originally posted by Jones19
Well i met this girl when i was out Saturday night

What would you do?

So JONES19....you've known this woman for 3 whole days and you are thinking about getting her a b-day present. NO....don't get her sheeyot. A card would be just fine, thank you.

At this rate you'll be buying her a Jaguar after 30 days of knowing her.

Play it cool man.

[A Fly onThe Wall]

Just a card is the only way to go ..

Originally posted by alphamale

At this rate you'll be buying her a Jaguar after 30 days of knowing her.

She will have your Ballz on the Mantel in a jar and you'll have to ask her to use 'em

[Jones19]

Ok cheers all just gonna get her a card

[CurvyGurl]

Don't try too hard. Since you know about it, you can't be an @ss and ignore it. Get her a card, take her to lunch, the same as you'd do for a friend. She doesn't deserve less consideration simply because you spent some time alone with her.

[Cecelius]

CurvyGurl is absolutely right. The way to treat someone you have a dating /sexual interest in is just like a friend...

Seriously, mate. Card. Nothing else.