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Old 24th December 2003, 1:26 AM   #1
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I don't like pretty girls.
OK I have noticed that I'm attracted to girls who arent generally accepted as attractive. Like I'll meet a girl that I know is completely hot yet I'm attracted to her at all. I guess I like girls that are considered average-looking. Is theyre anthing wrong with this? I'm a pretty good looking guy and I've been with really attractive girls before, but now I like just average girls. So am I weird or is this healthy? I feel theres nothing wrong with this.
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Old 24th December 2003, 1:29 AM   #2
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There is nothing wrong with this! You are attracted to whomever you feel is attractive. There is nothing wrong with that.


Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Whos to say these girls arent pretty? I mean yeah Vin Diesel is nice, but I've had crushes on dorky, bald, older men before. To each his own.

You just keep doing what you are doing, there is nothing wrong with you!
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Old 24th December 2003, 1:29 AM   #3
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What's really healthy is liking a person for that person's personality.
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Old 24th December 2003, 1:37 AM   #4
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I agree. Of course there will be a physical attraction first, most of the time. But, it depends on the personality if you stay.
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Old 24th December 2003, 1:41 AM   #5
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I'm with you two. I have dated both types of girls and the "model-type" women sometimes do not have "model" behaviors!

Yeah, physical attraction is good but, then what? I'd take a nice girl over a supermodel type anyday!

After you look at them there HAS to be something else or...I'm gone!
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Old 24th December 2003, 1:43 AM   #6
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i actually really like odd-looking men. distinctive, i guess.

i think talent can make any man attractive, too.
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Old 24th December 2003, 1:43 AM   #7
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I'd take a nice girl over a supermodel type anyday

There's hope for me yet! Hey, sailor - goin' my way?

i think talent can make any man attractive, too.

Absolutely! I'm in danger of developing a major crush on Jon Stewart.
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Old 24th December 2003, 1:47 AM   #8
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OK I'm ok now. I do also agree that personality is most important. It's just when my friend would say "Eww, you like her?" It made me wonder, but he only thinks with his dick anyway. Yeah the girl I like right now is so dorky, glasses, ears that stick out, etc, but I'm crazy about her, lol.
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Old 24th December 2003, 1:48 AM   #9
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Hey, your friend is a dweeb! lol Just kidding.

Listen, if YOU like her and she likes you, then dont worry. Your friend could just be trying to create drama. Some like that.

Go, be off with ya... go be happy with your girlie!!
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Old 24th December 2003, 1:51 AM   #10
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Yeah he can be a real prick sometimes. but hey thanx!
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Old 24th December 2003, 1:54 AM   #11
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Youre welcome, anytime!

Be happy, life is too short to worry about what others think...in the end it doesnt matter.

Just like her cause you do.
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Old 24th December 2003, 2:04 AM   #12
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Re: I don't like pretty girls.
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OK I have noticed that I'm attracted to girls who arent generally accepted as attractive. Like I'll meet a girl that I know is completely hot yet I'm attracted to her at all. I guess I like girls that are considered average-looking. Is theyre anthing wrong with this? I'm a pretty good looking guy and I've been with really attractive girls before, but now I like just average girls. So am I weird or is this healthy? I feel theres nothing wrong with this.
Nothing wrong with this at all, friend. I'm not into beautiful women, either. -- I'm into sexy women!!!

Looks are a plus -- Attitude is everything!

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Old 24th December 2003, 2:58 AM   #13
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Hey Moimeme,

Your ship has arrived!!!!!!
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Old 24th December 2003, 2:59 AM   #14
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Old 24th December 2003, 3:15 AM   #15
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I think you should ask her out. Don't worry about what your friend thinks. You know you've been with attractive girls before.

It doesn't worry me if my friends think a guy I am dating is not that great looking anymore. Just as long as I think he is!

Your friend probably may just want you to stay single. Like he is. I don't know.

I wouldn't listen to him. I would go for it if I were you!
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