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Old 23rd June 2009, 11:32 PM   #1
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my parents are to disown me!

That fine morning, my dad urgently said he and my mum needed to speak to me because God had given him a strong warning that I should leave whoever I'm seeing or there will be a terrible disaster.

This gave me no choice of revealing my long relationship with my muslim bf.
For if I didnt and told them that he was only a friend, they would see it was easier to sever all contact with him and placed close scrutiny that i do not contact him.
i'm christian btw. and my parents went through a hell lot of chaos in the house, threatening to disown me if i married him. however, they mentioned that they will disown neither of my siblings and i if we were to marry non-christians(all other religions other than Islam), but they still will not attend our weddings. (my siblings are dating non-christians from other religions)
they even went to the extend of kneeling down to my bf and I and begged him to leave me, in fact, they gave us neither choice.

#1 if i decide to continue my relationship, i will have to leave the house. and they will no longer acknowledge me as daughter.

#2 if i decide not to continue, they will be hallelujah-ing will great rejoice, dancing with the music of the church bells but I will regret this for life.

After the long 4 hours of mess in the house, my bf was greatly shocked to much tears by the whole event. He decided to tell my parents he will end it. But later on, we still decided that we should see one another in secret.

I am prepared to face my parents disowning me in the future, but I'm just afraid I might have made the wrong choice and I fear that what God had told me Dad might be true in future. Please help!
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