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Old 1st November 2006, 5:11 PM   #1
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Someone said to me, that the fact I get bullied off random youths must tell me...

something.

What do you think it's supposed to tell me?

All I can think of is that I look like an easy target and I must look unlikeable. But I don't think he ment that.
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Old 1st November 2006, 5:14 PM   #2
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That you believe you will be bullied and the belief in that makes it come true.
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Old 1st November 2006, 5:18 PM   #3
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maybe ROSS_K can just believe he will be approached by all these beautiful birds and then it will really happen...

the power of the mind is incredible!
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Old 1st November 2006, 5:20 PM   #4
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That you believe you will be bullied and the belief in that makes it come true.
Like manifesting will?

How cool that you can do that, Ross.

I've tried over and over but I always end up falling asleep. Maybe I should just stick to my potions.

Actually, seriously, BO may be onto something here:

If you believe yourself to be unlikable and an easy target so strongly that it actually becomes true, then maybe you should think yourself likable and tough and maybe you will become just that.

Maybe you can even think yourself a magnet and you will attract the ladies.

You seem to have high energy resonance, you see. It greatly radiates from your avatar.
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Old 1st November 2006, 5:21 PM   #5
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maybe ROSS_K can just believe he will be approached by all these beautiful birds and then it will really happen...
Isn't that how you do it, alpha?
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Old 1st November 2006, 5:23 PM   #6
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Like manifesting will?

How cool that you can do that, Ross.

I've tried over and over but I always end up falling asleep. Maybe I should just stick to my potions.

Actually, seriously, BO may be onto something here:

If you believe yourself to be unlikable and an easy target so strongly that it actually becomes true, then maybe you should think yourself likable and tough and maybe you will become just that.

Maybe you can even think yourself a magnet and you will attract the ladies.

You seem to have high energy resonance, you see. It greatly radiates from your avatar.
Maybe, yeah, food for thought.

What do you mean by a high energy resonance, the_alchemyst?
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Old 1st November 2006, 5:31 PM   #7
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What do you mean by a high energy resonance, the_alchemyst?
I can feel it. When I log into LS, I am immediately hit with a rush of energy flow from the vibes of the members here. Some, I will admit, are higher than others, while some are more positive than others.

From you, I sense a high potential for positive energy; currently, I feel your chakras are sealed and too tense, thus supressing it.

I feel that you are a good person, yet deeply misunderstood because not many are afflicted with the high level of social anxiety as you. To many, the ability to interact with other people is a natural, but for you, it is somewhat more difficult.

I believe this has to do with the phase the moon was in when you were born.

You can free yourself of this, Ross. Don't listen to these hooligans who say you can't or that it's all in your head.

Just free yourself. Feel the flow. And open your third eye.

You will find someone special in approximately three months.
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Old 1st November 2006, 5:33 PM   #8
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Maybe, yeah, food for thought.

What do you mean by a high energy resonance, the_alchemyst?
High energy radiance.Thats positivle special.
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Old 1st November 2006, 5:38 PM   #9
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I can feel it. When I log into LS, I am immediately hit with a rush of energy flow from the vibes of the members here. Some, I will admit, are higher than others, while some are more positive than others.

From you, I sense a high potential for positive energy; currently, I feel your chakras are sealed and too tense, thus supressing it.



I feel that you are a good person, yet deeply misunderstood because not many are afflicted with the high level of social anxiety as you. To many, the ability to interact with other people is a natural, but for you, it is somewhat more difficult.
Yeah, I am a good person, and yes, because of social anxiety it can make it incredibily hard to interact with people. But, when I'm comfortable, I don't have any problems at all.

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I believe this has to do with the phase the moon was in when you were born.

You can free yourself of this, Ross. Don't listen to these hooligans who say you can't or that it's all in your head.

Just free yourself. Feel the flow. And open your third eye.
Hmmm, I don't really know how to do that.

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I wish.
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Old 1st November 2006, 5:40 PM   #10
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This is a very interesting topic, and I have a lot of things I could say.....but if I don't get back to work, I'll be posting about how much it sucks to be unemployed
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Old 1st November 2006, 5:42 PM   #11
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This is a very interesting topic, and I have a lot of things I could say.....but if I don't get back to work, I'll be posting about how much it sucks to be unemployed
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Old 1st November 2006, 5:43 PM   #12
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Your thoughts are welcome laguy10.

You seem to be one of the few supportive people on here.
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Old 1st November 2006, 5:48 PM   #13
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Ross_K,

You have been given numerous opportunities, and tools to advance in your life. To flourish, expand, improve, and cultivate as a grown male in society.

Yet, you have not taken advantage of these tools.

Try, to least, zone out the negatives -and carry the positives with you.

Take this however you'd like. I'm just being honest.

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Old 1st November 2006, 5:55 PM   #14
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Ross_K,

You have been given numerous opportunities, and tools to advance in your life. To flourish, expand, improve, and cultivate as a grown male in society.

Yet, you have not taken advantage of these tools.

Try, to least, zone out the negatives -and carry the positives with you.

Take this however you'd like. I'm just being honest.

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I am trying to not hold on to negative thoughts any more, I'm trying to do the Anthony Robbins 7 day challenge, I've also been forcing myself into a few uncomfortable situations, and I've been writing down anything inspiring or really helpfull that anyone has said to me (since I don't have a printer) and I've also been writing down guides and stuff from links that people have given me. Also, I'm listening to hypnosis CD's, the motivation one actually seems to be working.
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Old 1st November 2006, 6:01 PM   #15
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Hey Ross

Well, last time when you went to town to get a haircut you had an ok time with the hairdresser girl and nobody bullied you I believe.

I think you should just forget the bullies and not give them too much importance, as long as they don't hurt you...

Good luck,

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