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Old 1st October 2009, 8:58 PM   #1
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Am I jumping to conclusions?
Friend met girl in about May.
Proposed on August 29th.
Wedding is set for November 7th.

Are you thinking what I'm thinking?

They're 28 and 26.
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Old 1st October 2009, 9:00 PM   #2
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Shotgun wedding..I smell a pregnancy
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Old 1st October 2009, 10:24 PM   #3
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I'm a'thinkin' they're crazy.
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Old 1st October 2009, 10:37 PM   #4
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Friend met girl in about May.
Proposed on August 29th.
Wedding is set for November 7th.

Are you thinking what I'm thinking?

They're 28 and 26.
I'm thinking Titanic and iceberg.
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Old 1st October 2009, 10:44 PM   #5
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Friend met girl in about May.
Proposed on August 29th.
Wedding is set for November 7th.

Are you thinking what I'm thinking?

They're 28 and 26.
Are they Christian? If so yep.
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Old 1st October 2009, 10:55 PM   #6
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Turns out they met at the end of June. He was trying to get me to set him up with one of my friends in May, but that didn't work out. Neither one of them are religious.
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Old 1st October 2009, 10:57 PM   #7
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I'm thinking Titanic and iceberg.
LOL, and Fleet and Lee were drunk
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Old 1st October 2009, 11:13 PM   #8
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My step-sister is 19. At New Year 2008/09 her bf was in a long term relationship (couple of years) with another girl. He dumped this girl and started dating my sister in January 09, and they announced their engagement ten days later. They moved in together in June 09, and by the end of the month she was pregnant. My sister says she only got pregnant because he was thinking about breaking up with her. If you want to talk about Titanic and iceberg, I think their situation wins hands-down!
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Old 5th October 2009, 2:07 PM   #9
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Friend met girl in about May.
Proposed on August 29th.
Wedding is set for November 7th.

Are you thinking what I'm thinking?

They're 28 and 26.
eep! this sounds all too familiar.

Last year, my friend met her husband in September and got married by December she told me she was pregnant in January!

so you never know..
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Old 5th October 2009, 2:19 PM   #10
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Is she a Kardashian ?
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Old 27th October 2009, 8:54 PM   #11
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My sister says she only got pregnant because he was thinking about breaking up with her. If you want to talk about Titanic and iceberg, I think their situation wins hands-down!

What the F*CK?
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Old 27th October 2009, 9:02 PM   #12
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I am thinking they are crazy! Marry in haste, repent at leisure!

That honeymoon period does crazy things to people but to agree to spend the rest of your life with a person after a few months is beyond dim!

Oh well!
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Old 28th October 2009, 4:16 PM   #14
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Have you spoken to her about it? Is she normally that hasty?
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Old 28th October 2009, 5:33 PM   #15
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Have you spoken to her about it? Is she normally that hasty?
My friend is a he... and no, he's not. He's always been pretty commitment-phobic, to be honest.
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