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Originally Posted by cocochanel34
We have this recurring thing where my husband will be telling me something, and I find myself interupting him with details I think should be taken into consideration. He (understandably) takes it that I'm being negative, but I really dont mean it that way. I'm one of those people who has to think about every scenario and how it all might turn out. Sometimes as the words are leaving my mouth, I realize I shouldn't be saying it (at least, not at that moment). He gets frustrated and we wind up in a fight. GHADS!!! - Why can't I just keep my mouth shut?!?!
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I don't know if you should keep your mouth shut. In my experience, many of the people who accuse others of being "negative" are themselves starry-eyed dreamers. They may have the best intentions, but don't like to look at their plans realistically.
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