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Old 2nd January 2018, 2:01 PM   #106
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This is a no brainer.
If you guys are pretending to be chummy-buddy-friendly,than he is not a dickhead who used you as his Plan B and was ok with stringing you along. If he were, you wouldn't be exchanging holiday greetings, would you?
He is doing this to feel good about himself.
I hope you did not answer, and that he is now blocked from your email.
I don't see anywhere in his message or mine in response on 12/18 where it would be considered chummy-buddy-friendly...but OK

He pulled a dickhead move...period....NEXT
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Old 2nd January 2018, 2:20 PM   #107
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I don't see anywhere in his message or mine in response on 12/18 where it would be considered chummy-buddy-friendly...but OK

He pulled a dickhead move...period....NEXT
I did not mean you. I meant he was doing this to feel hood about himself.
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Old 2nd January 2018, 2:57 PM   #108
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I did not mean you. I meant he was doing this to feel hood about himself.
I understood what you were trying to say and I agree. Itís all about him feeling good about himself for what he did so he will try and sound buddy buddy.
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Old 3rd January 2018, 9:25 AM   #109
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Gotcha..I understand now

Thanks guys
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Old 3rd January 2018, 6:01 PM   #110
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did you respond?
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Old 3rd January 2018, 6:02 PM   #111
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And just like that...after he blocked me on his last social media site yesterday morning...I get this 12 hours last night around 8ish

"Merry New Year. Hope it's a good one for you"

Are you serious? WTH
He was drunk

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Old 4th January 2018, 12:11 PM   #112
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I got a 9.00am New Year's wish too from xMM. He wrote:
Happy new year.
X


I didn't respond. I'm sure he wasn't drunk when he wrote that because he's never drunk. But I think he wants some good ol' supply from me...
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Old 4th January 2018, 6:17 PM   #113
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He was drunk

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If he was drunk at 8pm he started pretty darn early

I did respond
I mirrored what he said to me basically

Happy New Year. Hope its a good one for you as well

And I wasn't blocked it went through..although I had bet I was blocked so the jokes on me
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Old 5th January 2018, 11:11 AM   #114
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To those of you who got New Year messages from your MM/ex MM's - count yourself lucky, IMO! The best I got was being offered a phonecall at 7.30pm on NYE, after declining my invite and spending it on his own. Although his new MW (he replaced me with) was probably with her family.
I wasnt surprised to not get a text from him after midnight (and didn't at Christmas either), despite my efforts - when was sent a "cheers, you too."
At least you're being thought about ladies!!

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Old 5th January 2018, 12:37 PM   #115
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To those of you who got New Year messages from your MM/ex MM's - count yourself lucky, IMO! The best I got was being offered a phonecall at 7.30pm on NYE, after declining my invite and spending it on his own. Although his new MW (he replaced me with) was probably with her family.
I wasnt surprised to not get a text from him after midnight (and didn't at Christmas either), despite my efforts - when was sent a "cheers, you too."
At least you're being thought about ladies!!
Why is validation important from people who use you for their own satisfaction, because they can and you allow it? Consider yourself lucky if you did not receive a Happy Breadcrumb.
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Old 5th January 2018, 12:44 PM   #116
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Consider yourself lucky if you did not receive a Happy Breadcrumb.
^^^^^yes..this

would've been better to get nothing IMO
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Old 5th January 2018, 1:04 PM   #117
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"Happy Breadcrumb". Ha! I love it.

(I've felt happy to receive so many of those, so I feel entitled to laugh!)
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Old 5th January 2018, 5:54 PM   #118
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To those of you who got New Year messages from your MM/ex MM's - count yourself lucky, IMO! The best I got was being offered a phonecall at 7.30pm on NYE, after declining my invite and spending it on his own. Although his new MW (he replaced me with) was probably with her family.
I wasnt surprised to not get a text from him after midnight (and didn't at Christmas either), despite my efforts - when was sent a "cheers, you too."
At least you're being thought about ladies!!
A phone call or a text is very easy to do. It doesn't really mean that much.

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Old 16th January 2018, 12:13 PM   #119
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Still as hard as the first for me
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Old 16th January 2018, 12:36 PM   #120
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And just like that...after he blocked me on his last social media site yesterday morning...I get this 12 hours last night around 8ish

"Merry New Year. Hope it's a good one for you"

Are you serious? WTH
Why haven't you blocked him?
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