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Old 9th November 2017, 9:52 PM   #31
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Wow... he's precious, isn't he?
I will not. He might be a guy who could hold his own with me intellectually but he's ... Socially awkward to say the least and I want someone who makes a better presentation than he would.
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Old 10th November 2017, 1:56 AM   #32
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Like that's a bad thing...

It results in avoiding messy, emotionally stunted males and keeping peace in one's heart, mind and home.

No sense in keeping foolishness around past the point they reveal their messiness.
Precisely!
Even if that 'list' consists of one person this guy would have been struck off it at that first phone call.

OP, I don't understand why you have left things hanging in the air?
Why didn't you tell him you're not interested following this second call?
He'll just keep hanging around if you're not straight with him.
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Old 10th November 2017, 2:02 AM   #33
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Wow, tough crowd around here. Not everything is literal.
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Old 10th November 2017, 4:38 PM   #34
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I got a text from him today, I will ignore it. I also got a text from that hippie I was with last year which I also ignored.

So tired of disappointment after disappointment. I can't do this anymore. Someone posted on this thread that I need to have a thicker skin but there are only so many disappointments you can take before it hurts your self esteem to such a point that you can't do it anymore. I am back in that feeling of "nobody wants me" again. Just a bunch of losers and sick freaks out there.
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MO, you need to stop giving the losers air time when they mess up big time like this guy did on that first call.
It's a much quicker way to a happier dating life.
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Old 10th November 2017, 5:08 PM   #36
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MO, you need to stop giving the losers air time when they mess up big time like this guy did on that first call.
It's a much quicker way to a happier dating life.
Then please tell me how one gets one of these. Really, I am asking.
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