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Old 28th January 2004, 11:43 AM   #1
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why do men like young girls??

SO why do men drool over young girls?

Is it emotional immaturity?
Shallowness?
Because 18 year olds are easy to manipulate?
Because men have been brainwashed by the media?
Biological wiring? (I hate this excuse)

I think it starts to get really gross, well... , A; when the girl is younger than 18, and B; when the girl is his daughter's age. A 30 year age difference just becomes gross and makes me think the guy is an immature pig. Have you seen Billy Joel's new woman? I thought it was his kid, and he is such a dried up unnattractive lout. Why would any young girl want to tough that old piece of chaw? Maybe it's more acceptable if the guy is 90 and the woman is 60. What do ya think?
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Old 28th January 2004, 11:49 AM   #2
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i love this joke! why do priests preffer 8 year old boys? turn them over and they are 8 year old girls!!


Seriously, i think it is a lot of times an ego boost for the old man.... yeah i was with christy brinkley, she got old, so i had to get a prettier younger thing. the girl is probaly star struck and looking for some material compensation. its all about looks.

also the little kids, like lester the molester types....well that is just sick, and is some wacked out fetish.
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Old 28th January 2004, 11:53 AM   #3
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lol yea those old dudes are ugly, but a lot of young girls nowadays are also gold diggers. That explains why young girls would go for old guys. In terms of men going for younger girls, i dont really know except that in society youth is highly sought after, even in terms of a partner. Women use wrinkle cream, cosmetics, surgery, botox, and other stuff to look young. Even women find younger men attractive in the words they use like cute and adorable to describe men. Its sickening to see a 60 yr old male with a 22 yr old female, but i guess in the end it comes down to whatever floats your boat.
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Probably because they are young, firm and perky. Unlike myself.......

I also think internet porn and other types of related pics have swayed men that way. I don't think that MOST men would actually want a relationship or marriage with someone who was 20 years their junior.....but I may be wrong.

I find younger men VERY attractive......but I wouldn't have much in common with one over a decade younger than myself. Hell, I couldn't even keep up with his taste in music......much less his sexual stamina.
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[color=blue]Mid-life Crisis.[/color]


Don't have to face mortality with a young woman in tow.

False sense of virility and youth.

"I still got it"

Those are just some of the things that some men may go through. Mankind has been searching for the fountain of youth for hundreds of years -- some men think they find it in young women.
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Old 28th January 2004, 12:38 PM   #6
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I find younger men VERY attractive......but I wouldn't have much in common with one over a decade younger than myself. Hell, I couldn't even keep up with his taste in music......much less his sexual stamina.
It might be fun to try, though!

Seriously, I am not the least bit attracted to younger men. I've always preferred guys who were 8-12 years older.

I suspect that one of the appeals of a younger woman (aside from anything physical, that is) is that there is less likelihood of baggage, i.e., children from a previous marriage. Also, I imagine that the concept of "trophy" wives or girlfriends is still alive and well in some circles.

Arabess - based on what you've posted in other threads and your avatar, I'd say you are in better condition than 90% of the female population... regardless of age. I am willing to bet you get more than your fair share of male attention
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Old 28th January 2004, 12:39 PM   #7
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I am 40 and young girls look good but would I date one? no.

And as far as sex goes I will take an older woman anyday. Older women are more uninhibited and know what to do in bed.

Twice while in my late 20's I had sex with older women; one was about 35 the other about 42. It was some of the best I ever had.
Younger girls are shy and most of the time boring in bed.

Just my observation...don't attack.
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You know, it works the other way around as well. I'm 21, and I can really 'drool' over older women sometimes. In my opinion, Monica Belucci is one of the most attractive women around, and she's well over 40 right?
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Its probably biologically programmed as a better chance of reproduction.
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I think it starts to get really gross, well... , A; when the girl is younger than 18, and B; when the girl is his daughter's age. A 30 year age difference just becomes gross and makes me think the guy is an immature pig. Have you seen Billy Joel's new woman? I thought it was his kid, and he is such a dried up unnattractive lout. Why would any young girl want to tough that old piece of chaw? Maybe it's more acceptable if the guy is 90 and the woman is 60. What do ya think?
I think we could turn around this whole topic and ask why are so many women attracted to older men.
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I think we could turn around this whole topic and ask why are so many women attracted to older men.

Good point. Younger women are prettier for the most part, that explains that in my mind, though older women have a different sort of appeal with experience.
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I think half the time when we see an older guy with a younger girl, it's not always the man. I think women sometimes think more like men then they wanna admit. She thinks of it as a conquest of sorts.(not speaking for all women of course) I know that's part of why I just snagged me a 27 yr old cutie
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Old 28th January 2004, 3:56 PM   #13
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I've always been attracted to older men. My current SO is 14 years my senior. For me, it has lots to do with the fact that they are more mature than most guys my age.

Also, I am undeniably physically attracted to older men. I'm not talking all gray hair and wrinkles, but men definitely get better looking with age - until they hit like 70. Age is just a matter of personal preference, like anything else.

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I think we could turn around this whole topic and ask why are so many women attracted to older men.
Daddy issues.
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Old 28th January 2004, 7:42 PM   #15
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Good point. Younger women are prettier for the most part, that explains that in my mind, though older women have a different sort of appeal with experience.
First of all, WHAT makes younger women prettier?? Is it just socialization that teaches you what you should like?? Secondly, is the fact that a woman is "prettier" a basis for having a relationship? Sometimes (note I said SOMETIMES) I just think men are dumb and their whole identity is all about pumping up their ego. They don't even care if they have an equal? a partner? a soulmate? They just need something pretty to look at?


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Daddy issues.
This is what I've always thought. Secretly wanting (needing?) to be nurtured by daddy.
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