vee123 Posted April 5, 2019 Share Posted April 5, 2019 Thought I'll add to this post rather than starting a new thread. Old thread more than 60 days old = new thread. Sorry. https://www.loveshack.org/forums/transitioning/search/671882-meeting-woman-dating-fun-self-esteem-improvement Basically my situation still the same minus the woman I was speaking to before. I don't really meet any woman that I'm interested in, in an social setting, actually that's probably because I hardly go out. I go work, home, work, home.. I started going back to the gym a bit more and I'm just working with my injury as it's not likely to go away as I've had it pretty long term. I've been to 2 different dentists who suggested different treatments, so I might book an third for another opinion. Since I don't really meet or interact with women I guess I'm going to have to approach some.. I'm trying to do that no masturbation thing but it's making me want to have sex more (I guess desired effect), but I have nobody to have sex with lol....ahh I'm going to go crazy... hopefully this will encourage me to cold approach. any other recommended books on building confidence / getting woman. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted April 6, 2019 Share Posted April 6, 2019 You should definitely masturbate. Everyone does it. No reason not to in most situations. Get those teeth fixed. Work two jobs to pay for it. That will certainly improve your appearance. Nothing is a magic bullet, but maybe once you feel like you look better, you'll smile more confidently and be more approachable! Link to post Share on other sites
shydad Posted April 9, 2019 Share Posted April 9, 2019 I don't really meet any woman that I'm interested in, in an social setting I think you should also continue with your OLD effort. Socialize by day, and use OLD by night. For OLD, you need to do a better job with your messaging. You should send a message as soon as you get a match. Link to post Share on other sites
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