Too Blue Posted November 9, 2018 Share Posted November 9, 2018 I had a friend. Used to come sit with my boyfriend and me. Boyfriend and I broke up and suddenly this guy is coming on really strong and wanting me to come hang out. We go out AS FRIENDS for karaoke and he plants a big old kiss on me. Things progressed quite rapidly as he hadn’t been in a relationship for two years and mine had sucked for three. Suddenly he loves me and all the feelings I thought had died in me came to the surface. Two days later he is distant. I told him I had to walk away. Too bad I didn’t. Thought I could just be casual and be friends and hang out. He told me he didn’t want sex. He just wanted me in his life. Fine with me, coz I don’t do FWB. MORAL OF THE STORYis never compromise yourself. I thought if I hung in there he would change his mind. And he did. He until the next day. IF HE SAYS HE ISNT READY THEN WALK AWAY! The more you get more emotionally invested the harder it is. Be strong and value yourself. Never be in that friend zone. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted November 11, 2018 Share Posted November 11, 2018 Good advice. I'd add that if you are not wired for FWB don't even try it. If somebody finds themselves catching feelings, the benefits have to stop. Link to post Share on other sites
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