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Old 4th February 2018, 4:39 PM   #1
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found out she's got a boyfriend after my Valentine's card

she said she enjoy hanging out with me as a friend and would like to continue to do so. Basically she was in my house today and we cooked together. There are few things that bugs me:

-why is she in my house alone cooking with me when she's in a relationship with another dude? bit inappropriate IMO. I wouldn't like it if i was her BF

-she never told me anything about her boyfriend, not even once. If she's serious about him shouldn't she at least mention him?

I'm planning to meet her again to find out bit more. what would you do if you were in my situation?
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Old 4th February 2018, 5:51 PM   #2
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In your shoes, I'd walk away & leave her be. You already know she has fuzzy boundaries. You are absolutely right if she has a BF she has no business cooking in your kitchen with you; I suspect she probably tells her BF that you are "just a friend" and that he's somehow wrong for being worried. True she hasn't cheated but it's a slippery slope if she's not being forthright to all involved.
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Old 4th February 2018, 6:34 PM   #3
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Not relationship material. Walk away it's not your job to fix that.
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