Whats my next step... is there a next step?

[Scadouche]

Hey guys,

So heres the deal. Met a girl in class and I asked her out. Her answer was "maybe" because she didn't want to say no to me but just started seeing a guy. We became friends through class but she would like every one of my insta, Facebook post within seconds and even admitted to stalking my Facebook and waiting for me after class (in prior semesters) to see if I would talk to her (which I didn't at the time). There was clear sexual tension between us and even her friends in the class could feel it. Last week, she found out her bf ( of 3 months, who lives 5 hours away from her) cheated on her, so they broke up. We went out to get drinks with her friends a couple of days later and she rally turned on the attention (even more than usual). We went out for st Patties and we made out, had a great time but she got upset over the breakup later in the night. The next day, she texted me saying that she wasn't ready to trust anyone etc. I told her id give her the space she needed... she then has texted or gotten in touch with me the next 4 days, even finding me at school to hang out. What do i do here? she knows I'm into her and she's into me, but not ready to commit.. am I wrong the think wishfully ?

Thanks

[Mysterio]

My first vibe of reading your post is that she is wishy washy. Maybe is a weak no.

 

Just go about your business. If she really wants you. She will make a very major effort to turn you into her BF.

 

For now walk away and find a new adventure.

[Ieris]

The ball is in her court, she already knows how you feel so leave her to make a move if / when she is ready. It's good for her to take some time out to get over the breakup instead of jumping into your arms straight because you don't want to be with her while she's thinking of him. Just remain friendly and don't push for anything while she is vulnerable.

[NTV]

What everyone else said.

 

Next step is scarcity. Be scarce and you will be more desirable to her. No seeking her out.