bob the brave Posted June 15, 2013 Share Posted June 15, 2013 (edited) A girl initially showed interest in me, than dropped me in favor of a married player with 2 little girls. In my opinion this guy is a first class db. He stays out all night gambling, has affairs with married women, gang-band orgies and drinks excessively. All the while lying to his wife (she has cheated on him as well) and braiging to coworkers. He runs down people smaller and weaker than himself. He has no education or skills. This girl was quite smitten with him knowing all of this. With him she would drink excessively as well. After a while he did something to hurt her, another girl I think. She was hurt and returned to me wanting to know if I still cared for her. I did, but I had no choice at this point but to decline. Then a couple months later she found someone else got married 5 months later and pregnant after another 5 months. This is what drives me crazy. I really liked this girl and at times she seemed attracted to me. She said I was a 'good guy' like it was a compliment and yet she hooks up with a guy whom she knows is married and a player and then is surprised and hurt when he treats her bad. She seemed sincerely hurt when I declined her interest the second time. I felt she really felt bad about her choice with the player over me. But, I was interested in something more stable and I felt a girl who would date a married guy with 2 little girls could never be trusted. She didn't talk to the player for a while, but after I failed to befriend her as well, she eventually reutrned to him as a friend. What was she really looking for? If he hurt her, why did she return to him as a friend? If she was looking for stability (marriage and family) why did she dump a good guy that really cared in favor of a married player? And finally, I have seen her very affectionate with the player (friendly hug and peck on the cheek at social events) and with her husband. Can she really know what love is? What is the deal with a girl like this or is it me that sees a problem where none exists? Edited June 16, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Link to post Share on other sites
Author bob the brave Posted June 15, 2013 Author Share Posted June 15, 2013 Ok, then how about someone tell me a knock knock joke? Link to post Share on other sites
dtj567 Posted June 15, 2013 Share Posted June 15, 2013 Only if you go first. Seriously though I think she just has major porblems. She obviously likes guys who treat badly. Why this is could be for a number of reasons. Depression, low self esteem, abuse in the past etc. or she is just stupid.a lot of men and women do this for many reasons. Link to post Share on other sites
WordvAction Posted June 16, 2013 Share Posted June 16, 2013 I'll post a response in the form of a question because I'm bored and it will amuse me; why do you care? If it's because you still like her, then know that this girl is a grade A "low self-esteem so I'll **** the biggest dbag at the party while complaining about wanting a nice guy so everyone will love me even though deep down inside I hate myself" type girl; not the type you'd want to show to your parents. If it's because you're insecure because she picked some dbag, get used to it. You're going to run across many psychotic women in your lifetime who say one thing and go out and do another. Nothing you did wrong at all. These girls are all just learning experiences until you find the right one. Best of luck. Knock Knock Who'se There? Ice Cream Ice Cream Who? Ice Cream if you don't open up the door Link to post Share on other sites
melodicintention Posted June 16, 2013 Share Posted June 16, 2013 I'm asking myself, what is the deal with a guy who would take out time to vent about this stupid girl? Go find someone new to distract you, she wasn't....and still IS NOT... worth you time.... apparently....right? Choose your battles.....as they say now go Carpe diem and find a girl who isn't screwed up Link to post Share on other sites
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