Anthonychris43 Posted February 12, 2012 Share Posted February 12, 2012 There's this girl at my school who I'm attracted to. I have never met her before but she notices that I look at her from time to time. At first she seemed happy about it, but I didn't make a move. As time goes by I keep seeing her stare at me even when I don't stare at her. She works at this coffee shop at school and I went to buy a coffee while she was working, but had the other worker serve me. She hand't noticed that I was there, then when she turned around she seemed uncomfortable around me, she just looked at me kind of nervous. After that when I see her I find it hard to look at her because she knows I'm into her but it's been too long since I tried anything I feel it won't happen. My friend is friends with her cousin and I asked him to introduce me to her, she says yes and we'd go study the 4 of us. Then when the time came, her cousin said she'd never answered her phone. To me it seems she's not interested but the signals that I get when we look at each other does. I'm also not the type she typically dates so that's throwing me off too. I don't know what I should do, can you guys please give me some advice. Link to post Share on other sites
Cocollective Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 I learnt girls looking at you is not a sure sign that they are into you. Sometimes they look because they are curious, to see if you are into them. You sound like me, a shy guy, so if you really like her, ask her. Even the shyest guy in the world will muster enough courage to ask a girl he really likes, even if they are blushing furiously, sweating profusely and stammering like a chicken. You'll regret it that you never gave it a shot later on. Even if you do get rejected, you should be proud of yourself for making the move cos that takes courage. My 2cs Rich Link to post Share on other sites
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