tkgirl Posted September 20, 2002 Share Posted September 20, 2002 hi everyone! I've been away for awhile... did I miss anything good? (haha) Anyho, I was hoping to get some input on something: A week ago I met this guy (at a bar, how cliche!) We just talked but I think there were some definite sparks-not HUGE sparks, just sparks. He ended up asking me for my number and I usually don't go around giving my number to strangers, but he seemed harmless and he was sort of a friend of a friend - so I gave it to him. He lives about 30 miles south of my town and said that he would like to call me when he's up "my way". Well, I week went by and honestly I forgot all about him (really!) Then at MIDNIGHT last night he calls me! I was, of course, ASLEEP! so I just let the machine get it. So... my question to you all is: What is up with someone who I hardly know that calls at that late of an hour? Isn't that a little disrespectful, or am I just too uptight? Should I even call him back? (he left his number on my machine and told me to call him) He seemed like he'd be a cool guy to hang out with when I met him, but after this I'm not so sure. Link to post Share on other sites
clia Posted September 20, 2002 Share Posted September 20, 2002 Sounds like a drunk dial to me. Did he sound drunk? Was he out when he called? I'd wait until he called at a reasonable hour. I mean, even if he did happen to be up your way, calling that late seems like either a booty call kind of thing or a drunk let's hang out kind of thing. Either way is not conducive to dating. I don't know...if it were me, I don't think I'd call back. (Of course, depending on his drunkennes and how he phrased it.) I personally don't think anyone in their right mind calls someone they don't know at midnight. Link to post Share on other sites
midori Posted September 20, 2002 Share Posted September 20, 2002 "I personally don't think anyone in their right mind calls someone they don't know at midnight." My thoughts exactly. Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted September 20, 2002 Share Posted September 20, 2002 i'd call him... at like 3 am make it short! -yes Link to post Share on other sites
Author tkgirl Posted September 20, 2002 Author Share Posted September 20, 2002 yea, I decided not to call him. He should have called earlier in the evening if he knew he was going to be in my town. I'm pretty sure it was a "drunk dial", too-he sounds a little looped in his message. Oh well, I've known guys like this before and I'm sooo over it! Link to post Share on other sites
butterflyz Posted September 21, 2002 Share Posted September 21, 2002 when he's up your way. that means he wants a booty call. nothing more nothing less. Link to post Share on other sites
just_a_girl Posted October 4, 2002 Share Posted October 4, 2002 Sounds sus to me. I think you have one of two choices here... 1. Go with your gut feelings which is most likely stay away from a guy that likes calling that late at nite. (well thats my feelings anyways) 2. Give him a chance and see where it goes, maybe he is quite nice and he rang u that late hoping to chat with you because he was bored and missed you. Maybe not, but if you don't ask you may never know why he phoned you that late. Goodluck. Link to post Share on other sites
Ally Boo Posted October 8, 2002 Share Posted October 8, 2002 Yeah it sounds like that to me. I used to date a guy who would call me about that time wanting a place to stay...didn't matter how well I knew him. Link to post Share on other sites
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