Guest Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 my boyfriends ex rang some days ago telling us the trouble she is having with their son.She is married and has a supportive husband but they are at the end of their tethers with him as he is playing up so bad at school and home. I have had him here for a week and during that time he was very demanding on everyone here(he is almost 13) and we have two female boarders and my daughter here and he was overly affectionate towards them to the point where they all got sick and tired of him.I was honestly glad in the end to see him go,I love kids and do not want to sound mean but he is too much and I believe he has other deep set problems. My boyfriends ex called yesterday upset,the boy was telling a girl at school he loved her so he then flashed his genitals to her.The school suspended him for a week because of this and when his parents ask him why he did it he said he didn't know. My boyfriend last night was clearly upset and sat here quiet then turned to me and said "what am I suppose to do,move from here and go down there?".This would be a terrible strain on our relationship and I know full well he would not be able to cope with him as he has had little involvment in his raising as it is.I know even if he moved there he would see him only so often and we are only a few hours drive away from him. What suggestions can you make that will allow him to stay here as his jobs here and me,I cannot move either yet but am willing to work something out for this boy.He told his ex that if he moved here the boy would break us up.I know with his problems it would be so tough so what do we do?.I don't want my boyfriend to move away I don't want to sound selfish but surely there is another way.
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