Author johan Posted February 23, 2007 Author Posted February 23, 2007 I refuse to let a GF walk away with my balls. I look at it as it being her loss and my gain when the relationship ends. Maybe guys shouldn't let them walk away with their balls. How does a girl walk away with a guys nutsack, figuratively speaking of course. Well, I've seen guys actually lay their balls right out on the table for the girl to seize. Then they get pissed when the girls take them and won't give them back.
Author johan Posted February 23, 2007 Author Posted February 23, 2007 I can spot a misandrist from a mile away and many of these women are. You have to read between the lines. No kidding? Can you provide any examples?
Woggle Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 No kidding? Can you provide any examples? I won't. They know who they are.
Author johan Posted February 23, 2007 Author Posted February 23, 2007 I won't. They know who they are. Well then I think you're making it up.
Pyro Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 Well, I've seen guys actually lay their balls right out on the table for the girl to seize. Then they get pissed when the girls take them and won't give them back. I believe it, and what those guys need to do is to learn to be balanced, which most will not learn until they have experienced being walked all over first hand. That is what life is all about:growing and learning from past mistakes. Don't let a woman walk all over you, but don't treat her like garbage.
the_alchemyst Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 Men make me grumpy, annoyed, angry, and sad. But bitter- well, the more I see and read of people, the more I just feel bitterness towards humanity in general. Which sucks, cause I'd really rather not feel that way. Ditto that. There are some days when I feel that men are nothing but wastes of time who aren't worth any bit of the effort you put into being with them. Nothing. Whether they be young or old, a "bad guy" or a "nice guy" or anything else, it seems that, fundamentally, all men are jerks (to say the very least) who are worth absolutely nothing. Other days, I feel this way towards humanity in general. And the rest of the days, I kinda don't care.
magichands Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 , fundamentally, all men are jerks ( Maybe in Russia, where you are from. If that's true, then I have to say that, fundamentally, all women are vaginas.
Audero Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 Good question. I can't speak for everyone, only myself. I've known my share of horrible, abusive, lying men. For some reason, I don't blame the entire male gender. I know there are good men out there, just as there are bad. I like men. Have male friends, and know for a fact that all men aren't like my exes. So why be bitter towards all of them? I'm not even bitter towards my exes. Now. Could it be women are more forgiving than men?
Woggle Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 Good question. I can't speak for everyone, only myself. I've known my share of horrible, abusive, lying men. For some reason, I don't blame the entire male gender. I know there are good men out there, just as there are bad. I like men. Have male friends, and know for a fact that all men aren't like my exes. So why be bitter towards all of them? I'm not even bitter towards my exes. Now. Could it be women are more forgiving than men? There are bitter people amongst both genders but it is good that you don't want to make all men pay for the sins of certain individual men. I admit I have problem with women but I am trying to work on it. There are good and bad people in both genders and I feel everybody should be treated as an individual.
JadeStar Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 I'm a man lover. Me too. I have been burned before in my life, but I just can not see spending my life being bitter about something someone had done to me. It just seems like such a waste of time. I know that there are some men who will hurt you, but I also know that not ALL men are like that.
Trialbyfire Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 To play the devil's advocate, society tends to mock bitter women but condones bitter men. Can anyone explain this double standard?
Woggle Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 To play the devil's advocate, society tends to mock bitter women but condones bitter men. Can anyone explain this double standard? It is actually the opposite. Male bashing is damn near a national past time while a man saying the same thing would tarred and feathered. Also many women can dush it but can't take it. I have had a few women go on male bashing tirades around me but when I fire back I am called a sexist pig.
Kamille Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 It is actually the opposite. Male bashing is damn near a national past time while a man saying the same thing would tarred and feathered. Also many women can dush it but can't take it. I have had a few women go on male bashing tirades around me but when I fire back I am called a sexist pig. You've said twice that male bashing is a national past-time. Where, who, how? I'm like Johan, I would like an example that would help me better understand what you're refering to. As for me, nope not bitter but I've really had mostly great men in my life.
a4a Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 I am not bitter but I am aware that the majority of men would indeed plug a hole if they knew they could get away with it without being caught. Not all but a good lot of them would. Just a fact, nothing to be bitter about. I am probably more bitter towards women because they get into competitions over men..........why? I mean who wants the kind of prize you get if a guy is dinkin' two women at once? That is not a prize. Thats like entering a battle over a turd. Or worse attempt to get involved in a stable happy M....... makes no sense. I will say that it is highly irritating to know that the majority of men I meet are thinking " wonder if I can get into her pants".... or worse yet attempt to do so. That does make me bitter, the lack of respect at times from people is just too much at times. Maybe thats why I love my avatar representing me. :D
EnigmasMuse Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 I am probably more bitter towards women because they get into competitions over men..........why? I mean who wants the kind of prize you get if a guy is dinkin' two women at once? That is not a prize. Thats like entering a battle over a turd. Or worse attempt to get involved in a stable happy M....... makes no sense. So true, so true. I have been crapped on by men before, like my ex husband for example, and yeah I was bitter when all was happening, but I got over it. Life goes on. I guess my thing is, I can't tolerate women who continue to play the victim card or want a pity party their whole life because of how a man treated them. I understand abuse, and cheating etc, had it done to me, so don't get me wrong, but I guess I can't see making others pay, for something that someone else had done.
Ripples Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 Maybe I am bitter. I don't know though... most of the time I just feel pretty sad that I don't feel good enough for the man I want.
Mz. Pixie Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 Gosh, I absolutely adore men.....and even though I've been burned before- I'm not bitter about it. If it didn't work out, it obviously wasn't meant to be!
Spinderella Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 bitter men blame women and bitter women blame women. so many times you see a bitter woman cussing the woman their cheating partner ran off with. its generally accepted that men cannot help themselves and so women take all the responsibility or dump it on other women. or maybe i'm just bitter.
a4a Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 bitter men blame women and bitter women blame women. so many times you see a bitter woman cussing the woman their cheating partner ran off with. its generally accepted that men cannot help themselves and so women take all the responsibility or dump it on other women. or maybe i'm just bitter. ehhh I have seen leach like women attempt to no end to involve themselves in marriages of others.... even when shot down by the man himself before it starts..... hell I have lived it. Stalker X's and bunny boilers. Women hate to lose even if the prize is not worth the fight. They can just be vicious. I don't get it. Maybe it is the "female fantasy factor"? Dream up some scenario and attempt to make it real? BTW I forgave those men that have wronged me, however I also extracted them from my life.
Woggle Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 ehhh I have seen leach like women attempt to no end to involve themselves in marriages of others.... even when shot down by the man himself before it starts..... hell I have lived it. Stalker X's and bunny boilers. Women hate to lose even if the prize is not worth the fight. They can just be vicious. I don't get it. Maybe it is the "female fantasy factor"? Dream up some scenario and attempt to make it real? BTW I forgave those men that have wronged me, however I also extracted them from my life. It is because some women think they are entitled to anything they want and when they don't get it it drives them nuts. That is why they go after taken men. I get hit on so much more now that I have a weddin ring but I am an honest man. I tell these women to fu-k off and find another man.
EnigmasMuse Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 It is because some women think they are entitled to anything they want and when they don't get it it drives them nuts. That is why they go after taken men. I get hit on so much more now that I have a weddin ring but I am an honest man. I tell these women to fu-k off and find another man. And SOME men think the same way.
Woggle Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 And SOME men think the same way. Very true and women should tell them to F off as well.
a4a Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 And SOME men think the same way. word..............................
justagirlforever Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 What exactly IS bitterness? This may be a casual question, but one I've thought about - because bitterness is not something I think I've ever experienced as an emotion myself. Certainly not one that's been lasting or present for any length of time for me to recognise as such. I'm a forgiver. I don't hold grudges. I don't hate. I let go and move on. Bitterness is self-destructing. Is it worth MY life being bitter and damaging myself? No. Charming Health, an online wellness center states: “Bitterness is a frozen form of latent anger and resentment. Bitterness grows out of our refusal, to let go when someone or something is taken from us. Bitterness is being constantly hurt by a memory and is holding onto a hurt until it has a hold on you. Bitterness is the unhealthiest emotion you can have. When you are offended or disappointed by others and allow the hurt to germinate in your heart, bitterness and resentment will take root. Bitterness is characterized by an unforgiving spirit and generally negative, critical attitudes.” “The thing with bitterness is, it takes control, and it consumes and robs us. Bitterness is more than a negative outlook on life. It is a destructive and self-destructive power. It can be physically as well as emotionally debilitating. Persistent bitterness makes one angry and confused, and leads oneself deeper and deeper into a jungle of despair. Bitterness is a frozen anger in latent form. Bitterness is a malignancy that makes a person extremely vulnerable to unwise decisions and destructive thought patterns that infiltrate and affect our bodies as well as our souls.” Bitterness is negative energy contracted inwards. The best method to utilize bitterness is when we allow this particular emotion to act as a temporary vehicle, to help us move through life experiences. Our emotions allow us to use a common language to relate to each other. Our emotions connect us as humans. To rid your psyche of bitterness you have to learn to forgive. In order to forgive, you have to change how you think and remember that bitterness is a cold and latent form of anger and has deep roots embedded in hate.
Woggle Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 Truthfully I am not that bitter either. I know it may seem that I am but I just trying to tell men to wise up and how they can find happiness. Nearly every person who has done me wrong has destroyed themselves in one way or the other so I figure since the universe tends to balance itself out that it is a waste of time for me to hold grudges against others.
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