Novadas Posted February 22, 2007 Posted February 22, 2007 Greetings TO everyone here who is So HelpFull, I am Known online as Novadas. I am 14 right now and i think i Experianced True Love! i wanted to Certify it with other people. i was Hurtfully told by My mum its never going to be true love. My GirlFriend is the best thing that ever happend to me... i know alot of Guys who say that as a way to GEt a girl into bed ect.... but with me its differant all i ever want is to be around her ..even calling her makes me 100% more relaxed knowing she is happy and safe. and when we do meet there is nothing we are ever nervous about....she was my First Kiss too. My First Love .....That is Why i want to know if i am Really in-love because i have never been before. weoften Talk about the futur and that we will always be together...yet i see this many a-time countless Breakups occur after. i have been with her for 2 moths now ...allthou i liked her before it she never liked me untill she realised how much i made her happy ect... Things have never been so good for me and still i worry im not good enough for her ...that she deserves so muchmore than me...even thou she tells me its only me she will ever want to love, i cant but feel this way ....why is that? Also i feel i dont do enough for her...is there anything outstanding i can to show her how much she means to me? Thank You all! Novadas!
norajane Posted February 22, 2007 Posted February 22, 2007 It sounds like you and your girl are already doing all the right things - I wouldn't worry too much about doing more, and certainly don't worry about whether you are good enough or whether she deserves more. I'm sure she's a smart girl and can think for herself. If she says she loves you, believe her and enjoy it. At the same time, you are young and 2 months isn't a very long time. True love develops over a long period of time, when you have known each other in all kinds of circumstances, and when you have had time to know yourself and who you are. You are both still figuring out who you are, and that process will continue into your 20's, 30's, and for the rest of your life. You will change over time, and what you think, feel, believe, want today won't be the same thing 10 years from now. You are just beginning! That's why your mother told you it might never be true love - she knows from experience how people grow and change. But don't let that worry you - enjoy what you have, be good to each other, and everything will work out for the best in the end.
Author Novadas Posted February 22, 2007 Author Posted February 22, 2007 What If The Bonding connectors Suddenly went into overdrive and i suddenly felt an imense emotion...so strong niether of us could possiably break it .......what f all we ever want to do is be with each other......what if the whole world stops spinning when we are together in a time laps and age seems to take little effect on experiance at times like that. i knowits nieve but i study the Human mind closely and understand more than most adults about how feelings work..and how things go.... ye i feel when it comes to love even thou i know how she feels and what she likes i feel that i ned to do more for her....
quankanne Posted February 22, 2007 Posted February 22, 2007 let's see ... in my old age (40s), my definition of true love is not worrying about germs when you kiss your mate when he's not feeling well – you're more concerned about helping him feel better. It's offering to share that something you'd rather take for yourself because you want him to enjoy it, too. It's being comfortable with each other so much that you can execute decisions whenever you need to on your own, but know that he'd be in agreement becaue he feels the same. It's sharing the same values and dreams, but your version complements his. It's being so much a part of his life that you're not sure where you end and he begings ... but that's my take on it after 10-plus years of marriage Things have never been so good for me and still i worry im not good enough for her ...that she deserves so muchmore than me...even thou she tells me its only me she will ever want to love, i cant but feel this way ....why is that? we're all insecure to some degree, but that lessens the longer you remain in the relationship. Tell yourself that you're not going to let those feelings overcome you, but that you'll concentrate on the happiness she says you bring her. i was Hurtfully told by My mum its never going to be true love. from your end of the spectrum, it is a hurtful thing to hear, but you have to think of it from your mom's perspective. She's had those new feelings before, she's prolly cared about other boyfriends as she dated them, and she most likely realizes that what she thought was true love at 12 or 16 or 20 is different than what she's experiencing now. I don't think she means to be hurtful, just trying to tell you that you will grow in your capacity of love, and that growth will change definition as you age. my personal thought is that every relationship brings you one step closer to the one you are truly meant to have ... that's not to say that the other relationships are less because they were different, they're just different because you don't possess the same level of knowledge as before.
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