a4a Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 Goodness I feel like a whore........ 2-5 :lmao: awwww......hell I had fun tho. I cannot imagine only having 2-5 notches on my bed post. I would feel unworldly and unenlightened. man just imagine if you only had 2 duds in your whole life.... your whole life you would be thinking sex is not so good or enjoyable.
Ripples Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 It's gotta depend on circumstances, on the individual, surely? Maybe I'm trying to defend myself here, but when I got out of hospital, I was so desperate to feel that I was still attractive after becoming disabled I slept with practically anyone (I nearly said anything ) Soooooo, maybe a blanket judgement is a little too harsh?
Thunder973 Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 I guess its safe to say the "how many is too many" is purely up to the individual inquiring and the reasons and nature of the inquiry. Some people feel they have a right to know their partners sexual past before delving further into a relationship or any kind of intimate scenario. Some people have personal insecurities and feel the need to know every detail of their signifigant others past while others have no interest in knowing. Some people feel that their partners sexual past directly correlates with the character of the individual. Past actions are an accurate predictor of future actions. I wouldn't want to get involved with a woman who felt the need to be loose.
laRubiaBonita Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 i think once you catch an STD.... that is one too many. if you stay clean throughout the duration of your sexual years then there should be no limit.
tanbark813 Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 i think once you catch an STD.... that is one too many. What if you catch an STD from the first person you're with?
mrmaximum Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]It can be a bone of contention but to each their own. However in this day and age I believe it would be remiss if you didn’t ask about someone’s sexual history. I’m not pointing fingers but it is a proven fact that the more partners you have the more likely that you may cheat (I’m not saying anyone would mind you). When I was in college I knew a guy whose total was loriginally ow and asked a buddy of his how to ‘hook up’. I’m not kidding you when I tell you that this particular person gave him the ‘secret’ and I have no idea what that maybe . After that his total went from something like single digits to double digits in a very short time!! The buddy who told him this; possibly triple digits. Tell me, is that something that you would rather ignore? My fiancée happened to tell me about a family friend who if she was with someone, she was faithful like the say is long. When she was single however, let’s just say she had fun. In a very short time she too racked up a total in the triple digits (I’m not making this up) and she has information like names and phone numbers on most of them. To me, this is like a background check and you wouldn’t start a business with someone that has a history of not paying their bills on time, yeah? At the end of the day everyone is different and whatever floats your boat, there are consequences for our actions, yeah?[/sIZE][/FONT]
laRubiaBonita Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 What if you catch an STD from the first person you're with? then that was the wrong person in the first place, secondly you just screwed yourself over.
tanbark813 Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 then that was the wrong person in the first place, secondly you just screwed yourself over. Yeah, but by your last comment that would be one too many. Even the biggest prudes wouldn't go so far as to claim one is too many partners.
Pretty Fly Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 it is a proven fact that the more partners you have the more likely that you may cheat Whoah there! How about the more partners you've had the more you've fine tuned what you want in a partner and so will be happy with them when you find them?!
Topper Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]It can be a bone of contention but to each their own. However in this day and age I believe it would be remiss if you didn’t ask about someone’s sexual history. I’m not pointing fingers but it is a proven fact that the more partners you have the more likely that you may cheat Just who is proving these so called facts? I was a very active single man . Once I got married I never once cheated on my wife. The last few years of my marriage was pretty difficult due to a lack of sex in the Marriage. I am once again single, I have had a few partners since getting divorced. Once I am in a relationship I do not stay. I just love your " Gave him the Secret story " If there was such a thing, Anyone who had the secret could make billions selling " The Secret" The back of men's magazines are full of so called secrets to get woman in bed.
ash519 Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 I Would love to know where you found that fact maxim. I dont believe that at all. My bf and i have had some fun in the past but we wouldnt cheat on eachother. I tend to think that the less people you are with the more youd want to discover of what is out there. I dont think either is a proven fact though. Please lead me to that source.
mrmaximum Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 Sorry gang, not trying to make anyone upset. I will look up the facts about my previous post so that you guys can see for yourselves. As I said not everyone is like that I'm just telling you what I read. As for the 'secret' that buddy told my other friend. I mean it, he was a nobody just like I was when it came to women and he talked to this guy who was a major player, things changed!! I have only met this guy once and I have never talked to him. Believe it or not he got to a point that it didn't matter which woman he talked too, super hot, stripper, whatever he could get their number exceptionally easily, the guy had balls of brass. No, he wasn't always like that. I didn't mean to make anyone angry or point fingers. So if I insulted anyone, I apologize.
Topper Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 You better go find that guy Becuse if you could put that secret in a tin can and sell it you have just made Billions.
mrmaximum Posted February 23, 2007 Posted February 23, 2007 You better go find that guy Becuse if you could put that secret in a tin can and sell it you have just made Billions. I thought the guy was an ass. Beleive me all my buddies and I would just watch as the hottest girl in the room would be talking to "Derek" we would just look at each other; "there he goes again." Don't get me wrong, his total would be like 12-15 per year EVERY YEAR and that's not spectacular but then again it was with the girls of his choosing, the weren't ugly either!! Prior sexual experiences (defined in one study as the number of sexual partners between age 18 and start of first marriage or cohabitation) are positively associated with infidelity (Treas & Giesen, 2000), and married and dating women with four or more sexual partners prior to their primary relationship are more likely than other women to engage in infidelity (Forste & Tanfer, 1996). Journal of Marital & Family Therapy April 2005 by Adrian Blow From findarticles.com I'll see if I can find more gang. Once again they just say that it's associated, not a bang on definite!!
burning 4 revenge Posted February 24, 2007 Posted February 24, 2007 my last gf had over seventy at 36, but she slept with every guy she thought was attractive and would blow sixteen year olds in bathrooms
Trialbyfire Posted February 24, 2007 Posted February 24, 2007 my last gf had over seventy at 36, but she slept with every guy she thought was attractive and would blow sixteen year olds in bathrooms Eewww, eewww, ewwww, there's a reason why she's your ex...
burning 4 revenge Posted February 24, 2007 Posted February 24, 2007 Eewww, eewww, ewwww, there's a reason why she's your ex... she's suicidal at times, but she usually seems to have a lust for life (especially if cocaine and teenage blonde guys are invloved) i have to add the having sex with her was like f*cking the sky
Topper Posted February 24, 2007 Posted February 24, 2007 Sooooooooo Burning,ol buddy. Whats this girls name and would you by any chance have her Number?
Trialbyfire Posted February 24, 2007 Posted February 24, 2007 she's suicidal at times, but she usually seems to have a lust for life (especially if cocaine and teenage blonde guys are invloved) i have to add the having sex with her was like f*cking the sky I could take that in more ways than one: 1) Hot dog down a hallway. 2) It was great sex.
burning 4 revenge Posted February 24, 2007 Posted February 24, 2007 I could take that in more ways than one: 1) Hot dog down a hallway. ...........................................................
oh_what_am_I_doing Posted February 27, 2007 Posted February 27, 2007 !!!!! I'm 28, my number is higher than 8, but on average is just above about 1 partner per year since I lost my virginity. Hardly a player statistic!!! Ditto! I'm 28 and have had eight partners too. I lost my viriginity over 11 years ago. Eight partners in 11 years is a pretty low number. Two to five is just unbelievably low.
Grrlish Posted February 27, 2007 Posted February 27, 2007 Number of partners before marriage? Well, 2-5 would be awfully low if you waited until you were 40 to get married. Uh, yeah. I'm in my early 40s. 2-5??? Why in the world would this number even matter? The STD/safe sex conversation is a different topic.
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