emotional wreck Posted February 22, 2007 Posted February 22, 2007 Advice needed ASAP. Married 3 yrs together 5, met on a online chat room. I have been forced to tell my story on how I had online emails and sending explicit pictures of my anatomy to men that I have known from my younger days. Started out, Where you been? U Married? You look great after all these years? Yeah I am married! These are the kinds of reactions I got from men well boys back in the day that didn't see me as a girlfriend just a girl that is a friend and fun to party with. I wasn't ugly then and I am not ugly now I do look better than I thought I could at this age. My husband is a great guy, hard worker, good looking, doesnt cheat or abuse me. So what have I done? We both have children from past relationships me not married but a single mom and he was divorced with kids not living at home. So I ask anyone with advise to help me understand what i did wrong and how can I fix my marriage. I left my email up on our home computer I fell asleep and my husband came home from work and usually gets on the PC to read his emails but to his surprise mine was open and ready to read for the world. He read thru emails I had received and sent to a few me. whether I had one or a million it really didn't matter because he had no idea of these men. There were a few emails that were from close male friends that he thought. Sexual communication and pics of me I never had them send me pics I wasn't interested in that. My husband doesnt want a DIVORCE just for me to understand what i have done and how we can get past this. Your advice is welcome.
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