Guest Posted February 22, 2007 Posted February 22, 2007 From what I've read here and other places on the web as well about how hard NC is for folks, and it makes me feel like I must be odd. As much as I may love a person when they break things off with me I never once even contemplate contacting them, ever. I feel so destroyed by them that I don't want anything to do with them. They are dead to me. I just get on with my life the best I can. I think my anger overrides any desire I have to lower myself enough to try and reach out to an ex. I do however relish those times that an ex will contact me and beg for me back and for some reason every single one of them have more than once... I always end up telling them in an upbeat friendly manner, how wonderful my life is now that they are gone, sometimes (and I am not proud of this) I even embellish a bit. I know it's wrong to enjoy doing something spiteful like deflating an ego, but I do. Am I the only one who never wants any type of relationship with an ex once they are an ex?
shorty45 Posted February 22, 2007 Posted February 22, 2007 Am I the only one who never wants any type of relationship with an ex once they are an ex? No, you're not alone. I've met people who couldn't even be friends or date their ex after it was over. Some people may be friends but not date again. Just the majority of people I know won't even be friends.It really depends on the person.
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