shorty45 Posted February 21, 2007 Posted February 21, 2007 My second to last ex started talking to me again a year after he broke up with me.We broke up because he wanted more than just sex(which we did have more than just sex.So I have no idea why he was such a girl). He used to nag about it when we dated. Though we spent most of our time hanging with our friends.Anyways, at first he wouldn't sit near me back in 2005 when we started to hang as friends. Since 2006 ,he is comfortable to sit near me. He confides in me and does try to make me jealous. He mentions other girls then flirts with me. Sometimes when we hang as friends,he doesn't want to go home until the next day. He hasn't dated since April 2005. His reason he told me was he wanted a relationship that lasted longer than a month. I haven't dated since October 2004. Recently he asked why I don't date. I told him how I'm commitment phobic then he argued on how it's impossible. He wouldn't accept it for a little while. Finally he asked me if I'd say no to a serious relationship if asked. Followed by if I'd still say no if he told me he never stopped caring.That he wanted to get back together and have a serious relationship. I pretty much said no. He made a lame excuse that he only asked to see my response. Then last Friday he messaged me to ask why I had a good night with my friends like it's his business to know or maybe out of curiosity. He has a big ego. Even though he asks me insecure questions about him, I think that's just his way to boost his ego. I know he has a big ego since he seems to think every girl wants him. Including me. I don't want him more than a friend because I don't want a guy who nags and is conceited. He tries to say he doesn't care now but did before. I just don't buy anything he says about not caring. I'm curious to know what might be going on. I know it's hard to be exact since no one can really know what's going on in his head.
Author shorty45 Posted February 23, 2007 Author Posted February 23, 2007 I guess it's hard for people to answer why he's acting this way. I thought it be a simple he still cares and pretends to not to. Or he's just trying to get an reaction or he's just immature.
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