Guest Posted February 21, 2007 Posted February 21, 2007 When I was a little girl, always thought I would get married have the house, the white picket fence, the dog, the cat and the two children one boy and one girl. Name my children a name both me and my husband both wanted............... NOW reality kicks in, my husband to be wants his first born son's name to be his fathers name, just like every other person in his family... all named the same thing... and I get NO vote in this.. I asked about a compromise...Why don't we pick a name TOGETHER for the first name, and we name the second name after your father... I got a big fat NO. I was told he will speak to his father and see what he thinks about this idea. I will not back down on this; I want the right to name my baby... I feel like I am about to marry his father not him....This is so important to me to name MY FIRST BABY too.....I think this may break us up if we can't compromise on this.. Am I wrong to want to name my own baby? Or am I wrong in not letting him choose the name?? Very confused?? do I just say fu%%%%% it and leave before tit is too late and this is only the beginning of being married to his family cause he can't make up his own mind...Did I mention that he does not care (if his father says we can name it what ever we want then he says go for it) but like I said earlier I am not marrying his father...
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