Stives Posted February 21, 2007 Posted February 21, 2007 I'm tired of going for the wrong guys. I'm looking for someone who knows what they want to do with their life or at least has a plan of some kind. I'm always going for the guys who are still living at home kinda thing, they're great guys but I'm 26 and I wanna start a relationship that will be headed somewhere promising and not with some guy who wants to take over daddy's business. It's great to have an option of running the family business but when your doing it just because you don't want to go out there are try on your own what kinda stength does that show. I get picked up by guys all the time but who knows if they have girlfriends or a wife and just lie about it. So here it is... If your around my age, SINGLE, finished school, living at home (but at least have a planand are not waiting for your parents kick you out), do not have committment issues, trustworthy, and looking for one of those relationships that some people call "power realtionships" (meaning : everyone wants the relationship you have) let me know if your out there. If any of you read my last submission about that guy problem I had (he had a girlfirend and I knew all along), please rest assured that I left it alone and am a better person for it. Any girls out there who know what I'm talking about and have found the solution, please let me know. Anyone out there????
Road Rage Posted February 21, 2007 Posted February 21, 2007 You should get a profile on Match.com or yahoo or something. Just be careful. And get out there and meet guys anywhere and everywhere. And watch that bitch shield , it`s cost a many a gal a lot of guys approaching her just to ward off the undesirables.
Lauriebell82 Posted February 21, 2007 Posted February 21, 2007 i agree u just have to go out and meet guys. it happens when u least expect it. yes there are a lot of jerks out there, but there are some good ones left. go after them! what do u do for a career? are there men u could meet at professional events such as conferences? some suggestions for places to meet non-losers: the gym, upscale bars like Bar Loui (a martini bar), restaurants, the theater, ect.
oppath Posted February 21, 2007 Posted February 21, 2007 Advice I commonly see is to find 3 passions, and do those things every week. So join a running club instead of going to the gym on Sundays, join a book club or the young democrats club, and do something else. If you are in situations where you can see the same people a couple weeks in a row, keep your eye out for the social but slightly more shy guy (you know what I mean). Take your time getting to know the alpha guys, but also what I would call the alpha_2 guys. I say this because I am the guy you describe. I can be the life of the party. I am socially confident. I'm not shy. But I don't dominate. If I'm on a new coed sports team, usually there is another guy who gets all the attention from the girls the first 2 weeks, but by week 4, their attention has changed to me. So my recommendation is to put yourself in situations where you can meet people and learn who they are. At the very least, you'll make some new friends who are similar to you and likely meet people through them eventually.
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