kezla82 Posted February 21, 2007 Share Posted February 21, 2007 I moved to England from Australia 14 months ago, to be with my english boyfriend. We were planning on him returning to Australia with me perminantly and eventually we were to get married. A few weeks ago I had a feeling tht he was cheating on me. I found it all to be true on the 10th of Feb. I tried talking to him about our situation but he refused. On valentine's night he took off in his car at about 1am. It turns out that he went to her place and spent the night with her. I have been in contact with her but she still maintains that she is not the one he slept with. He sat me down he other night and told me the whole truth about what had been going on. He told me that he had lied to me about who it was he slept with to protect her. I asked him why he slept with her and his answer was that he felt sorry for he because she had just separated form her husband. He also says that he can't help who he has feelings for. I asked him if he values her feelings more than mine and he gave no answer. He says he still loves me and I'm the most important thing to him in the world, but he is just not IN love with me. I'm so confused and alone being so far from home. Yesterday morning he sat me down again and handed me a small jewellry box. Inside it was a white gold and diamond bracelet with entwined hearts on it. He explainded that he gave it to me beacause he still loves me with all of his heart and that we will forever be connected in a special way. What am I supposed to make of it all? I'm so confused. I still really want to stay friends with him but I don't think I'll be able to cope with the fact that I know he will be persuing a relationship with a still married woman whom he cheated on me with. I have told him how I feel but it doesn't seem to register with him. Link to post Share on other sites
Craig Posted February 21, 2007 Share Posted February 21, 2007 What am I supposed to make of it all? I'm so confused. I still really want to stay friends with him but I don't think I'll be able to cope with the fact that I know he will be persuing a relationship with a still married woman whom he cheated on me with. I have told him how I feel but it doesn't seem to register with him. You are supposed to realize (over time) that this is not the man for you that he never was the man for you and that you must move on with your own life. You have had an adventure that most people never even dream about let alone do by moving like you have. Make the best of your situation, do what you need to do to get your life back and heal. I'm pretty sure that your bf will come back to you all apologetic and things but do you really want to invest any more time with a guy that can't control who he sleeps with and has no clue about the meaning of love or commitment? Link to post Share on other sites
littlepiggy1 Posted February 21, 2007 Share Posted February 21, 2007 This guy sounds like he has no morals. Get away from him and get on with your life. Eventually you will find someone who is right for you, unlike that douchebag. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kezla82 Posted February 22, 2007 Author Share Posted February 22, 2007 Reply to Craig: I know i have to move on with my own life. I'm heading home on Monday to be with my friends and family. I'll only start to get over him and the whole situation once I get home. The whole relationship wasn't bad, it's only been the last few months that have sucked! I think in a few months or so he will come back to me but I don't think I could ever take him back as a boyfriend. Being frinds is as good as it is ever going to get! Link to post Share on other sites
lovelorcet Posted February 22, 2007 Share Posted February 22, 2007 why on earth would you want to be friends with this guy???? Link to post Share on other sites
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