OD3 Posted February 20, 2007 Posted February 20, 2007 So I met this girl recently (3 months after my breakup with my ex). She is perfect. I took her out on 2 dates. Good ones and we had a good time. Champagne, wore my best clothes, did my hair perfect, smelled great, shaved. Top form. Nothing. And after the 2nd date I was convinced she felt no connection. Anyways, I met up with her last night, not for a date, but just to pick DVD i lent her. I was in my shoddy work clothes, messy hair, unshaved, didnt have much smellies on, and didnt even go there with anything in mind but to pick it up, have a chat and go home. Drinks turned into a few more, which turned into dinner. Had a wonderful time, laughed and jokes. I walked her to the bus-stop and instantly we just both just kissed each other, and it was like 10 minutes of fantastic kissing. I asked her "so, does this mean I get to see you again?" and she was like "of course". EH? Wtf? I will never, ever, ever understand woman.
Kamille Posted February 20, 2007 Posted February 20, 2007 What are those chemicals called again? Pheromones? Now let me try and dissect your date's mind: 2 first dates, great, the guy is cute, smells good but, hmmm, might be trying too hard. No grounds for disqualification - just grounds for holding back. You show up one night and it's casual and relaxed. She feels like she's really getting to know you. But rest assured, those two first dates are going to play in your favor. She knows you clean up nice and that you can also be quite laid back. Way to go OD3.
phyrespryte Posted February 20, 2007 Posted February 20, 2007 Well the whole fancy champagne date sounds nice and all, but for a first date it might've been too much. Maybe even seemed like you were trying too hard. While when you came over you were just being yourself and everything seemed more relaxed.
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