fanou22 Posted February 20, 2007 Posted February 20, 2007 It had been a long time since I have been here and obviously my lack of posting is because the affair had been over for a long time. Once the affair with x-MM was over, it was really over even though him and I stayed in irregular touch. I recently had a close encounter with potentially becoming an OW again and all the roller coaster feelings came back flooding my emotions. This time he was not married nor was he in a relationship. He had just broken up with his GF. The reason, I say that is because when he told me he was going back to his GF, all I could think of is "Not again....." I sworn I will never be someone's OW again and I will not be one nor will I allow it to happen. I am not sure why I came back here tonight. I just needed to come back and read again and realize how easy it would have been to fall into the pattern again. Maybe my post belonged in relationships, maybe not.
GreenEyedLady Posted February 20, 2007 Posted February 20, 2007 Sorry to hear what you're going through...and you're always welcome here...
puddleofmud Posted February 20, 2007 Posted February 20, 2007 I agree with GEL: you are always welcome here! So sorry to hear that this attraction brought about "old" feelings--as you don't deserve such AT ALL! You have learned a thing or two and have become stronger and wiser. This is to be respected about yourself so please do not feel badly. It is my opinion that you should feel very secure in your strong and wise self and know that you have the ability to take good care of YOU! Congrats on your strength about knowing what is best for you and stick to your intincts! Big Hugs to You!
frannie Posted February 20, 2007 Posted February 20, 2007 I recently had a close encounter with potentially becoming an OW again and all the roller coaster feelings came back flooding my emotions. This time he was not married nor was he in a relationship. He had just broken up with his GF. The reason, I say that is because when he told me he was going back to his GF, all I could think of is "Not again....." I sworn I will never be someone's OW again and I will not be one nor will I allow it to happen. Hello there... I'm glad you posted this. Isn't it great to have been through something, learnt something about yourself, and now be able to apply it to get yourself out of a potentially damaging situation..? Congratulations...
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