Camilla Posted February 18, 2007 Posted February 18, 2007 Is it possible to get a second chance after your ex says they don't love you and they never want to see you again? I've been acting very out of character since we split up a few months ago, and now my ex seems indifferent to me (I asked him what he thinks when he looks at me, and he said "nothing") and says he has no interest in me whatsoever. I know the obvious answer is no, there will be no second chance. But is it possible after a period of no contact and once he has calmed down? Please help.
Porn_Guy Posted February 18, 2007 Posted February 18, 2007 when a man says he's not interested....he's not interested. When a woman says it, it can mean anything.
McFadden Posted February 18, 2007 Posted February 18, 2007 There is a very low probability of feelings coming back if they are completely gone. Not impossible though, depends on just chance as well as the circumstances of the situation and the individual. Is there a story involving what happened? The only thing that can be done for now is No Contact.
Author Camilla Posted February 18, 2007 Author Posted February 18, 2007 Well I cheated on him, but it was a very drunken thing that I regretted instantly (not that it's any excuse). He took it very badly; even bursting into tears at work - he never cries, not even at his mother's funeral! He told me he was heartbroken and I begged him to give things another go, and a couple of times since we split up we've ended up in bed. He always seemed very loving when that happened and everytime after said he didn't regret doing it. He also said he still loved me a few times, but over the past month all he's been saying is that it couldn't work, and he doesn't love me anymore. when a man says he's not interested....he's not interested. When a woman says it, it can mean anything. He said he wasn't interested one day in the morning, then by the evening he was saying he still cared! Then he changed his mind again. Was he using me for sex? He hasn't got the highest of sex drives, which is what made me doubt he was using me - he was single for 2 years before me and never had sex in that time, and the same thing happened when he split up with the ex before her. ETA: he even said once (about 3 weeks ago) that when we're getting on, his feelings do get stronger. The last time I spoke to him was about two weeks ago, and he said I was only interested in myself and just kept using him for sex. I wasn't sure if he meant that and really feels that way, or if he was just trying to turn it round on me because I once asked if he'd used me.
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