Guest Posted February 18, 2007 Posted February 18, 2007 I dated this girl for 4 years, basically lived together for most of them at college, fell in love, and wanted to take it to the next step. We rarely had any problems or difficulty communicating. Distance got in the way when we were trying to figure out jobs and grad school because she lived about 2 hours from me. She became very needy and I wasn't there for her. She "fell out of love with me", there was just "no end in sight", but said she didn't realize until a month after we broke up. It has been 3 months since the break up and the last time we spoke she said she doesn't know if this is right and she doesn't want to say goodbye forever. During the past month or so I found out she is dating her old boyfriend from highschool who cheated on her. Supposedly I found out from her friend she has a crush on him and sees him on the weekends. Is this a rebound or has she moved on but doesnt want to hurt my feelings? She never gave me closure, rarely e-mails back, and never told me the real reasons she fell out of love with me. I started no contact 2 weeks ago.
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