littlebit Posted February 18, 2007 Posted February 18, 2007 I dated this guy for about a year. I was immediately attracted to him and this was mutual. He started the relationship on the fast track and I moved right in with him (Not thinking of course). He told me I was the woman of his dreams and he knew he wanted to marry me. Along with him came a child and a wife who he had been seperated from for 4 years with a lingering divorce. He is 31 and I am 28 by the way. I have no children but told him I wanted children one day and we started to plan to have children and get married. HIs daughter, family, and I have gotten pretty close. Well he told me that in december he would propose but when december came he told me he was uncertain of proposing, that his divorce was not finalized ect.... so i was upset and felt he was giving me excuses and started to change from feeling secure with him to feeling insecure with him and his feelings for me. Then we talked and he said he would ask me to marry him in february but leading up to feb. any discussion of marriage upset him. We had sex a few time unprotected on his terms, I never got pregnant but that was the plan. Then In feb. He started getting moody and complaining to me about little things, everything seemed to annoy him. I felt I couldn't even breath without getting on his nerves. THen one day after work he broke things off with me saying he did not feel the same way about me and would not be able to marry me. I was so hurt but when I left him a little relieved because for months I felt I was on an emotional roller coaster with one minute he wants me and the next he doesn't. He must not have thought I would actually walk out because he called me the next day crying. He told me he did love me and that he was sorry for pushing me away and to think about it if we can get things to work. We are suppose to talk about things monday night. I am nervous and have mixed feelings because: I have now moved out and bought new furniture, I am not sure if he really loves me or if he just wants someone to help him out with the bills so he saying he loves me so I am there, or is he really sincere. He told me his divorce will be finale on Friday which is crazy b/c we had been working together and waiting for that forever so we could take the next step and then when we separate its over how ironic. What do U think. Please help. I am 28 have no children with a good career. I want to meet the right person and have a family I don't want to be stringed along.
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