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Hi,

 

Last January I post a thread that I am happy with my LDR and very excited about our wedding. But the thing is, I am getting frustated. Not because of I am scared that it(the wedding) might not happen. But because of my fiance.

 

Everyday we text each other, or when I call him or when we chat online; He always tells me that he misses me and that I should go back home now. In someway it is sweet cause he really wants to be with me. on the other hand, it is frustrating me. Because I really do want to be with him. Whenever he does that I feel like I would go out buy plane tickets and get on the plane as soon as possible. Throwing away the sacrifice that we've been through.

 

All I am asking is a few more months and I will be home. I don't want to quit my job here so that I can go home and get married. If I do that what happens to us after I come back here. Try to get a new job? Like as if it is easy to find a good job and be "HIRED". The longer I stay jobless the longer we will be waiting to be together here. Of course I'm gonna need the money to bring him here, get my own apartment(i'm still leaving with my parents to be able save money), buy furnitures and stuff for our future home.

 

I don't want to tell him that whenever he ask me to go home that I get frustrated. And I don't want him to think that I don't want to go home either. Is there a way on how I can tell him to stop asking me to go home without him feeling anything bad about it?

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