hrtbroken99 Posted February 18, 2007 Posted February 18, 2007 for those men who have had a relationship with someone for at least a year and claimed to "love" the person, and broke up with a girl because "you wanted to see what else was out there, or couldn't see you and the girl together in the future" how would you describe the breakup was for you? were you sad, felt a sense of relief, angry, or regret breaking up? what was the after affect for you? also, what happened? did you find "That other person" or ever contact the one you broke up with?
ratingsguy Posted February 18, 2007 Posted February 18, 2007 I go back to my very first serious R, about 8 years ago when I was 23. Even though it was only 3 months in duration, I consider it serious since I had been courting this girl for years going back to high school. Once I got into a R with her, I realized that I had really put this girl up on a pedestal... and while she had a lot of great qualities, it turned out she wasn't what I was looking for in a girl. I was blinded by love. So I ended it. I felt bad that I broke her heart. I did learn a few things in the process, so for me, even though it ended in heartbreak for her, it was a good experience. Looking back on it, I know I made the right decision. After a few years passed, I tried to make contact with her, but I never heard anything back. I tried every once in a while in the subsequent years, but it yielded the same result. It's too bad, too, because she would have been a great friend. I do hope that she is doing well.
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