ae4e Posted February 17, 2007 Posted February 17, 2007 I was doing great their for a while, everything was perfect...and then BOOM...she hits again. I was surfing myspace, and she posted a bulletin, (I read most all bulletins), and one of the questions was: Have you ever been in love before? And she said: No, never ....this is hurt me so bad...I guess I was wrong that whole time, she sure as hell acted like she did. She said: I have never been love with the guys themselves. I am hurting so bad right now....any help?
whichwayisup Posted February 17, 2007 Posted February 17, 2007 First off, STOP reading her myspace blog. There's a good chance she posted that, knowing you'd read it. How did your relationship end? Good or in a bad way? Words are one thing, so if you feel she acted like she loved you, then believe that. Don't discount your relationship with her and what you went through because of her words on a myspace account.
Author ae4e Posted February 17, 2007 Author Posted February 17, 2007 Our relationship ended in a "somewhat" good way, we were not mad at each other and still wanted to be friends....but some things have happened since then, words have been said and such...which makes no since to me. We seldom ever talk, but we are never mean to each other....she seems to have grown out of her trash talking days. I could tell she loved me for a while, and then she got mean...never talked to me, STUPID excuses as why not to do anything. She really made no since.
confusedandempty Posted February 18, 2007 Posted February 18, 2007 It doesn't matter if she loved you or not. She doesn't now ... so you don't have to bother. It hurts to know ... but my good man, it doesn't matter. First of all, don't read your ex's bulletins. Seriously, it won't do you any good. Are you waiting for a question: "Do you want your ex boyfriendsback?" "Answer: Yes, I can't stop thinking about him". I know you are looking for that, but like I said. It doesn't matter. If she broke up with you. That was her decission to make. Your objective is to make sure the she will regret it in the future. man I'm drunk...
Author ae4e Posted February 18, 2007 Author Posted February 18, 2007 Yeah your right....I constantly want to see if she would say something about me or give me any glimmer of hope....in fact I do that all of the time. I cannot even get into a new relationship for feeling like I am just doing it to make her jealous, and I do want someone else, I just feel like they won't compare......ugh ugh UGH! Why can't I get over this girl!!!!!!!! By the way she got dumped by that ugly guy, he left her for another girl. Should this tell me anything? Any help someone?
confusedandempty Posted February 18, 2007 Posted February 18, 2007 Am I getting this right? She dumped you for this ugly guy? The ugly guy dumped her for another girl? And you think that the fact he dumped her has anything to do with her wanting you back? Definetly not. I just read some of your older posts and in a post from January 8th you say that there are 3 months since the breakup. That is the beginning of October. Dude, you have to let it go. If she would want you back she would have called you. I know exactly how you feel - I also don't seem to get my ex out of my head, but at least I have admitted that we won't be back together EVER. That's when you put on your dancing shoes and start flirting ... with other girls Wise man said...Why buy one book when you can enter the library... I am starting to believe that is true Good luck my good man
Author ae4e Posted February 19, 2007 Author Posted February 19, 2007 Am I getting this right? She dumped you for this ugly guy? The ugly guy dumped her for another girl? And you think that the fact he dumped her has anything to do with her wanting you back? Definetly not. Not exactly what I meant, lol. I am saying, if the ugly guy dumped her for another girl....he obviously didn't see her as anything special...why do I? I have been talking to other girls, showing off and what not, lol. I do know we are NEVER going to get back together, I am just having a hard time accepting it. Been a rough few days..
ratingsguy Posted February 19, 2007 Posted February 19, 2007 I am saying, if the ugly guy dumped her for another girl....he obviously didn't see her as anything special...why do I? What difference does that make? Just because you liked her isn't a guarantee that everyone will. Besides, you don't know the real reason that they're no longer together... it could be for a million different reasons. By the way, you need to delete her as a friend from your myspace account. Once you do that, you won't be able to see her bulletins anymore. It will help you move on. Good luck, brother.
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