littlebit Posted February 17, 2007 Posted February 17, 2007 Do some guys break up with thier girlfriends when they are thinking about proposing because they get nervous and think they are not right for them but then come back and propose once the relationship is over because they realize that the person is the right one and they just didn't see it. My boyfriend ended things with me because he said little things I did bothered him and that he was not 100% sure I am the one for him. Now he is crying, saying he can't sleep at night, and missing me. When we broke up he said he should know I am the right one for him. Do you think there is hope of a proposal or he is just lonel and will eventually get over it.
oh_what_am_I_doing Posted February 17, 2007 Posted February 17, 2007 Well people make mistakes so if you love him and miss him too, I would take him back. You didn't mention anything really evil he did, like cheat on you or anything, so I would give him another chance. I would NOT however, expect him to waltz back into the relationship with an engagement ring. I'm reminded of the Friends episode when Rachel had her baby. Ross wanted to get back with her and maybe start dating again, but she thought he was going to propose. That would have been skipping a giant step! I don't know how long you've been together, but if it's only a year (or less) I wouldn't bring up the marriage thing, but if you've been together for several years, before taking him back I'd tell him that you want to get married eventually and are not willing to wait around forever
Guest Posted February 17, 2007 Posted February 17, 2007 Cold feet? Of course that happens but if I were you the last thing I'd want right now is a proposal. You don't go from a breakup to a marriage proposal without doing a lot of work in between. What happens the next time he gets cold feet and you ARE married and have kids? If he is unsure then he needs to figure out why.
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