Guest Posted February 18, 2007 Posted February 18, 2007 If you want to make it work and you are secure in your position as the OW than why are you tormenting yourself!!! Accept the fact that he isnt going to leave his wife. I cant stress that enough. But as soon as you face that right now this relationship works for you conventional or not you will be able to relax. It is obviously working in your life, then decide if it s what you want or not. When it is no longer working for YOU then you will get out. There are no what if s ...he isnt leaving his wife. Do you still want to be the OW...If so, accept the role you play in his life and he plays in yours. I am talking from experience and my life became a hell of alot easier when I did. I kept trying to be politically correct and I felt like a fake. There was a sense of freedom when I just said this is what it is. I dont want out of it.
frannie Posted February 18, 2007 Posted February 18, 2007 frannie- that dose of reality just kicked me in the a$$...who looks at things like that?? Thank you, you definitely put a spin on it I wasn't expecting! I don't know... all I could see in your words were fear and unhappiness. Best of luck to you, and jag, in getting to where you need to be.
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