LMoney Posted February 15, 2007 Posted February 15, 2007 So, I have officially been NC for my EX for the past 2 days, only yesterday he decides to text me a "happy v day"...ARE YOU KIDDING ME? You broke up with me, broke my heart, show NO interest in reconciliation, yet you txt me HAPPY V DAY..Please don't make me *itch slap you..(haha j/k) Anyway, QUESTION FOR MEN: So obviously I am on his mind...right? Otherwise he wouldn't have txt'd me. So, do go complete NC in hopes that he will "change his mind" or what...I mean he still has stuff at my house (important) and we still have a joint account-don't you think if it were over he would close that and come get his crap? Does it sound like he just needs time and space to think things through??? YOUR THOUGHTS PLEASE.....
the_total_package Posted February 15, 2007 Posted February 15, 2007 he may have sent it to keep you hanging, doesn't mean any real feelings. He texted, it's not like he asked you out to dinner to apologize for how he treated you and to beg for you back. Why don't you close the joint checking acct. yourself, take your fair share of what is honestly your $ out of it. I wouldn't trust him really, if it's a joint checking acct., he could clean it out one day, then what? yeah, go NC.....I would start dating other people.
Krytellan Posted February 15, 2007 Posted February 15, 2007 NC all the way. It'll tear him up. With NC, no matter what happens, you will maintain your pride and dignity. Win-win.
Author LMoney Posted February 15, 2007 Author Posted February 15, 2007 I didn't respond to his txt but am DYING to call him or txt him today. I won't however, cause I know it will be the same ole same ole.."no, we are not going to get back together...period".....HELLO..why can't I seem to just let it go. I guess I just want him to realize how irrational he is being and come running back saying...im sorry, im sorry, lets make it work, i love you.... I KNOW PUT DOWN THE PIPE! come' on a girl can only hope for it!!!!
blind_otter Posted February 15, 2007 Posted February 15, 2007 NC all the way. It'll tear him up. With NC, no matter what happens, you will maintain your pride and dignity. Win-win. Excellent advice. I agree.
ratingsguy Posted February 16, 2007 Posted February 16, 2007 So obviously I am on his mind...right? Otherwise he wouldn't have txt'd me. So, do go complete NC in hopes that he will "change his mind" or what... My guess is that even though he broke up with you, he may feel kind of guilty about it and/or cares about you as a friend. He probably didn't want you to feel down on VD. Does it sound like he just needs time and space to think things through??? Maybe, but I doubt it. One thing you need to realize is that you can't be friends with someone you love. Go NC. You will feel better over time.
Guest Posted February 16, 2007 Posted February 16, 2007 Hey, I know what you mean...my bf and i just recently took a break the day before our anniversary and of course pretty much week before v day. Get this he texts me happy anniversary the next day...and i love you no matter what crap. What the heck?!! Makes absolutely no sense at all. Why guys? Why do you do this? I would like to know! anyway...we are nc now and we haven't talked since...sigh....hoping for the best...
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