Coughlin Posted February 15, 2007 Posted February 15, 2007 It's funny but God really knows what he's doing when it comes to relationships and deciding who's right and who's wrong for you and we all have seen the signs but some of us chose to ignore them for whatever reason--blinded by love or more likely infatuation. Sorry, if this message is kinda preachy but I came into some information regarding my ex that basically confirmed what type of person she is and the exact type of person that I had suspected she was the whole time we were together. God gave me this information because he knew that it would help me to move on and heal. The truth hurts but it does help in the long run. The truth is that she used me and now she is using this older, guy for basically the same reasons--comfort, support and sex. It wouldn't be so bad if she actually had feelings but all she cares about is herself. She will say whatever anyone wants to hear but deep down there's is no meaning to her words. She actually said to me a couple weeks ago that her dating this other guy who works with us in the same industry was nice because he cared about her and they don't talk about work which is such a cliche. Here's the thing; she and he are both cliche's. They actually make a good couple. He's almost 20 years older than her and she's daddy's girl. He's a player and anyone would know anything they would want to just by looking at him and she has no depth. Anyways, Thank you God for showing me the light and although it hurt like hell, I can't even look at her much less speak to her because of how different we are. And I guess my point is that the signs were there, my spider senses told me there was something not right about her. From now on, I will trust my instincts and let Karma handle the rest. The great part about having the work connection is that eventually I get to see how things play out. I wish her the best but the way she treated me was all wrong and she may not have respect for me but she will. And for me, there is no way she will ever earn my respect. The guy is disgusting and it's funny how they say on these forums to picture your ex on the toilet to help get over them but all I have to do is picture them together and it makes me laugh sometimes and other times I just think it's gross. Either way, it helps to know that I'm much better off now that I realize the type of person she is.
ratingsguy Posted February 16, 2007 Posted February 16, 2007 The great part about having the work connection is that eventually I get to see how things play out. But how will you feel if by some fluke things work out well between them? I've never been a fan of office romances... because eventually someone gets hurt and they're trapped in the same building together because of the job they have. There are a couple of women I work with that I'd love to ask out, but I'm hesitant for that reason. In any event, it sounds like you're moving on and that's great! Good luck to you, brother.
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