Guest Posted February 15, 2007 Posted February 15, 2007 What is the deal with people who do not ever try to see the other side of things? People who refuse to see that there is a possiblity that something might actually be different from the way they feel it is. People who feel the need to right, and are never wrong about nothing. Why do some people act like this? My sister has been like this for as long as i can remember. Our homelife was a pretty good one, sure we had ups and downs just like most families, but for the most part it was a good homelife, so i don't really see it as being that. She doesn't have the best relationship with other people though, like her friends and b/f's she has had. She destroys them by not letting up some, and seeing that she is not always right about things. Friends leave her because shes not open to seeing their sides of anything and its the same with her b/f's too. They leave her or she runs them off because theres no compromising on anything at all. Its like this, and thats just the way it is kind of attitude she has. I have gotten to the point to where even i don't care to be around her. i can't say or do anything. She just a very negative person. i asked her before has she ever been open to hearing or seeing other peoples views on things, and she has said, "nope, this is the way i feel period, and i just don't care." i think thats one of the things that bothers me, is she doesn't care.She has her mind made up before anyone can even try to help her see the other side of things. its really frustrating, why are some people like this? is part of this a choice or is it a mental disorder kind of thing? maybe both?
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