A Happier Valentine's Day Next Year?

[PoshPrincess]

Hi guys, just want to give some hope to those who want to move on from their affair with MM/MW. This time last year I was SO in love with my MM and believed that we would eventually be together. Although I DID get a card from him with lovely words, etc, I had a miserable Valentine's Day because, not surprisingly, I didn't get to see him. I sat at home, alone, with my wine and cigarettes, crying and ended up tearing up the card I'd bought him, so he didn't get one from me. I didn't see the point in giving it to him the day after Valentine's Day and was so angry I guess I wanted to hurt him.

 

This year things have changed dramatically. I have a new BF (SG) who I've been seeing for 3 months. I met him at his place, he had run a bath for me. I got a card, red roses and other presents, got taken out and was spoiled rotten. THAT is how it should be and THAT's what we all deserve! Someone's undivided attention.

 

I hope more than anything that those of you who want things to continue with your MM get what you want and end up happier for it. Of course, I wish that had happened for me but I now know it wasn't to be. Those who want to move away from the A, best of luck! I hope you end up as happy as I am. Please don't think I am gloating, I just wanted to show you all that things DO improve!

 

Best of luck to all of you x

[Baileykeg]

Posh - I'm so happy to hear that you are in a better place. You deserve it. Sounds like you had a wonderful Valentine's Day. Hope the good times keep coming! Keep us posted. :-)

[YoMomma]

Hi guys, just want to give some hope to those who want to move on from their affair with MM/MW. This time last year I was SO in love with my MM and believed that we would eventually be together. Although I DID get a card from him with lovely words, etc, I had a miserable Valentine's Day because, not surprisingly, I didn't get to see him. I sat at home, alone, with my wine and cigarettes, crying and ended up tearing up the card I'd bought him, so he didn't get one from me. I didn't see the point in giving it to him the day after Valentine's Day and was so angry I guess I wanted to hurt him.

 

This year things have changed dramatically. I have a new BF (SG) who I've been seeing for 3 months. I met him at his place, he had run a bath for me. I got a card, red roses and other presents, got taken out and was spoiled rotten. THAT is how it should be and THAT's what we all deserve! Someone's undivided attention.

 

I hope more than anything that those of you who want things to continue with your MM get what you want and end up happier for it. Of course, I wish that had happened for me but I now know it wasn't to be. Those who want to move away from the A, best of luck! I hope you end up as happy as I am. Please don't think I am gloating, I just wanted to show you all that things DO improve! Best of luck to all of you x

 

Posh, I was in the same place as you last year, I thought I was in luv...duh what an idiot I was - with my exMM. I also tore up his VD cards before giving them to him, not because I was home sad and crying over him - but VD last year was the awakening for me. He called as he did every day, he gave me a card, the usual candy and trinkets - BUT he wasn't with me and it was then I decided enough was enough I wasn't going to ever be second again. Long story, I didn't know he was married in the begining, BUT I am guilty, becuase I continued to see him when I found out. I made every excuse in my mind, to make myself believe that he wasn't what he really was - a lying cheat. It took a few months, but I ended it - and although I still think of the lying $hit (today is his BD) I am in such a better place today. I am dating a nice single gentleman who is a sweetheart. I am happy for you - we all deserve to be with someone who loves US! Don't ever look back

[PoshPrincess]

YoMomma - I loved your quote at the end. SO true.......