EnigmasMuse Posted February 14, 2007 Posted February 14, 2007 I have seen many threads or on going threads, about sexless marriages or lack of sex etc, but what if it were on the flip side of the coin about that? What if you and your spouse have wonderful sex, nothing really lacked at all in that department, but you no longer, really were inlove, have much respect for, help out, not much communication, and/or emotionally attached or attracted to that person? Now I know some people might say, well how can you not have those things and still have great sex, but many people do. So what do you do in a marriage when you have great sex, all the sex you could handle or ever want, but most everything else lacks? Do the same things apply as if you were in a sexless marriage?
JackJack Posted February 15, 2007 Posted February 15, 2007 I have seen many threads or on going threads, about sexless marriages or lack of sex etc, but what if it were on the flip side of the coin about that? What if you and your spouse have wonderful sex, nothing really lacked at all in that department, but you no longer, really were inlove, have much respect for, help out, not much communication, and/or emotionally attached or attracted to that person? Now I know some people might say, well how can you not have those things and still have great sex, but many people do. So what do you do in a marriage when you have great sex, all the sex you could handle or ever want, but most everything else lacks? Do the same things apply as if you were in a sexless marriage? Now you know, unless it has to do with sex or lack there of, or porn its not going to be a popular thread. But IMO, I guess it is alot like the sexless threads. People either decide what they will and will not tolerate.
dropdeadlegs Posted February 15, 2007 Posted February 15, 2007 You won't hear me say how can the sex be great if everything else is lacking. You've moved from committed married partners to more of a FWB status. FWB's can have amazing sex and not much responsibility to each other in any other way. You're just FWB's that live together and have merged assets and debts. It depends on your personal priorities as to whether the same things apply as in a sexless marriage. I don't know that there a set of rules for anything! Tolerance ability is my concern.
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