linkin Posted February 14, 2007 Posted February 14, 2007 We have been dating for almost 5 months but this is the girl ive alway dreamed abou all through highschool. well about an hour ago she calls and reluctantly tells me sh kissed another guy. I was floored, speechless thoughtless and in shock. I love her soo much, she seemed sorrowful enough on the phone but i just dont know what to say to her. I hurt like hell to hear that and just the thought of her kissing another guy made me angry and sad. She was at a party and doubtless drinking sooo.......i dont know what to do i dont want our relationship to end. just need some input. b/c i told her i would call her back tonight(its 10 30 where i live thanks
Thunder973 Posted February 14, 2007 Posted February 14, 2007 I know it hurts pal. It should. You like this girl a lot and you invested many feelings and emotions into this five month relationship. It is in my honest opinion that I do not think you should go further. Her actions weather alcohol related or not directly reflects how she felt about you at that moment. How would she feel if you kissed another girl. Cut your losses and move on. You sound like you have a decent head on your shoulders. I wish you the best of luck.
MotherGooze Posted February 14, 2007 Posted February 14, 2007 i would wait until you see her in person and talk about it. So you see her face and see if she really feels bad. You have to know what happened and with who. Talk about it.
Lauriebell82 Posted February 14, 2007 Posted February 14, 2007 break up with her..dont even give her a chance to apologize or anything. actually it would probably not be better to talk about it in person. she'll cry and beg her to take u back and chances are if u love her, u will be stupid and do it. u seriously need to just dump her, i now it hurts but whether or not she was drunk, she doesnt have any excuse for kissing another guy. is that really the kind of gf that u want? i have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months, and i would never even think about kissing anyone else but him ever even if was totally smashed off my a**. get rid of her so u can find a girl who will love u and devote herself entirely to u and nobody else.
Pretty Fly Posted February 14, 2007 Posted February 14, 2007 break up with her..dont even give her a chance to apologize or anything. actually it would probably not be better to talk about it in person. she'll cry and beg her to take u back and chances are if u love her, u will be stupid and do it. u seriously need to just dump her, i now it hurts but whether or not she was drunk, she doesnt have any excuse for kissing another guy. is that really the kind of gf that u want? i have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months, and i would never even think about kissing anyone else but him ever even if was totally smashed off my a**. get rid of her so u can find a girl who will love u and devote herself entirely to u and nobody else. Good advice
gfto Posted February 15, 2007 Posted February 15, 2007 break up with her..dont even give her a chance to apologize or anything. actually it would probably not be better to talk about it in person. she'll cry and beg her to take u back and chances are if u love her, u will be stupid and do it. u seriously need to just dump her, i now it hurts but whether or not she was drunk, she doesnt have any excuse for kissing another guy. is that really the kind of gf that u want? i have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months, and i would never even think about kissing anyone else but him ever even if was totally smashed off my a**. get rid of her so u can find a girl who will love u and devote herself entirely to u and nobody else. I agree! In fact, I wouldn't even bother "dumping" her. That's too good for her. Just disappear.
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