sporteguy03 Posted February 13, 2007 Posted February 13, 2007 I am dating a girl who occasionaly tells me that she is missing loving and frisky, we are only on our third date, Shes very supportive and easy to talk to . I met her off of match.com and she is a very admirable person. She has made flirty gestures towards me such as holding my hand, kissing and poking at me. She loves to send me text messages too and tell me about her days. I infact she loves to call me. She is putting in an equal effort into it. I don't know what to make of the sex part, she did say she dated a virgin before and was slow with him, maybe a girl out there can relate to this? I don't think shes a slut/ho because she said she wanted no bed buddies, is she trying to tell me something? I don't believe she wants sex literally with me right now..but seeing if I like her??
Thunder973 Posted February 13, 2007 Posted February 13, 2007 Maybe its just me but any female who feels the need to share past sexual experiences with a guy and dwell upon them is a red flag in my book.
hindsfeet Posted February 16, 2007 Posted February 16, 2007 not neccessarily a red flag. i know that i have dated girls that craved sex but were also at the same time, very much relationship material. some people just seem to enjoy it more. i would recommend just being straight up blunt about things. the only dumb questions are the ones you never ask. try to be tactful when you ask of course but DO ask, if you have questions. You do not want to make a jerk of yourself and just assume something way off kilter. It may be something about sex that she misses that has nothing to do with sex at all also. The holding afterwards, how it draws you closer sometimes, how it totally makes you forget why your mad at the other. Or it could be just the sex. You dont know, so dont assume. find out. If she is into you thats awesome. none of my business but to clarify some things. are you a virgin? if thats the case then what is the reasoning behind that? and does she fit into the reasoning? some people dont have sex due to religious convictions, that is totally cool. but when it is not cool is when they compromise what they have been trying to practice by dating someone who has no concept of why they are waiting. ive known religious people that were in dating relationships and the significant other viewed it more as a goal for them to reach. then when the goal was reached, it was over. whether you are or are not, Communication is what you need. the reason you know what you do already is because she communicates what she is feeling. that is a huge good sign. it says she likes to know whats up.
Topper Posted February 16, 2007 Posted February 16, 2007 Is she telling you she is missing sleeping with someone in particular or is she saying she just misses having sex? If she is telling you she is just missing sex i would say that is one big hint and you had better make a move pronto. Just becuse a woman enjoys sex does not make her a slut or a Ho
Asafan Posted February 16, 2007 Posted February 16, 2007 Feel her out, feel her up, bed her down If it don't work out, at least you had sex.
Guest Posted February 16, 2007 Posted February 16, 2007 dude. im sorry bout that. i guess i shouldn't have rocked it so much. tell her to call me when she misses it and ill be glad to do it for you. i just cant do the whole talking thing.
the_total_package Posted February 16, 2007 Posted February 16, 2007 trying to push the relationship to the limit after a few dates. Did you read his post? His woman was begging to move in together after a couple months of seeing each other, now after 4 she's pushing for the wedding ring already....honestly this woman would freak me out a bit if I were a guy. I would tell something like "Good things come to those who wait, let's get to know each other before you start grabbing my ass." If she is POed with that response, good riddance. I think she is trying to show you she is not like 'other girls' and will give you the best time in bed of your life, interesting strategy. I have the feeling you will get bored of this one easily and her ardent pursuit of you. Really it's up to you to set the pace you want, don't let her rule here.
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