Author candy Posted February 22, 2007 Author Posted February 22, 2007 yes, i have spent time with his kids! we've done holidays together, we've gone bowling, movies, amusement parks. theres really no problems in that area--they are sweet, well adjusted well behaved children who really seem to like me. and tho i'm not a big kid person, i do have a niece and nephew i enjoy, and i try my best. but why should it always be about doing things for him? if just ONCE he would say guess what, the kids are sleeping over my parents house, lets go out, or i'll pick them up sat. morning instead of friday after school, that would be a show of faith that its not all about him! so making decisions without consulting me, like announcing he was going on this confenrece instead of discussing it, what does that say about us? i must say, i feel a lot of women writitng me are probably diivorced and have the same custody sitautions and are answering as ex wives, not women or girlfriends.....
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