staRRz Posted February 13, 2007 Posted February 13, 2007 Okay, I've been single for a while now. A couple of weeks ago I met this guy. Since then, we've gone on about 3 dates. He's a real sweet person and is so different from people I have dated in the past. Just last nite, we got to talking and I found out that he has 3 kids from a previous relationship. He told me that they've been apart for only 4 months now and swares that they'd never get back together, and that I'm not a "rebound". I'm 26 and don't have kids, and I've kind of gotten used to the lifestyle I have now. He's telling me he loves me and likes me a lot; thing is he's only known me for 2 weeks! So basically he's getting a bit clingy, and has 3 kids...I don't know if this can actually work! I'd appreciate your thoughts!
luvtoto Posted February 13, 2007 Posted February 13, 2007 Ruuuuuuunnnnnnnn!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :eek: But, hey...that's just what I'd do.
georgejungle Posted February 13, 2007 Posted February 13, 2007 Doesn't sound too good, and that's my honest opinion. Doesn't seem like they've been apart too long and he's got 3 Kids???? There's a lot of time there and investment, no matter how mature or immature this man may be. You can never completely walk away from all of that. I'm sure there'd be weekends where he'll have the kids. He can't also be saying he Loves you after only 2 weeks, that's not realistic. He may love your company, but he hardly knows you. it DOES sound like a rebound for him or at least some sort of escape for him. You've only had three dates, so there can't be anything super solid here. keep in mind all the things that would come with being in a relationship with this man. If he's already getting clingy, doesn't look like a good sign.
tikigods Posted February 13, 2007 Posted February 13, 2007 run away! This guy is already telling you he loves you? Only been away from baby momma for 4 months? None of these are good signs
guin_girl Posted February 13, 2007 Posted February 13, 2007 well, I started up with a guy just 3-4 months separated... he started out great, loving, he swore that they would never get back together, called constantly..... And then did a COMPLETE 180 and I got burned... told me that he realized he still loved her... even though they wouldn't get back together, he couldn't move on and didn't want to... (although as he was disappearing from my life, he replaced me with his next victim).... So, I'm licking my wounds now. My advice, let him go... way too much baggage, probably more than even he knows now....
CaliGuy Posted February 13, 2007 Posted February 13, 2007 Okay, I've been single for a while now. A couple of weeks ago I met this guy. Since then, we've gone on about 3 dates. He's a real sweet person and is so different from people I have dated in the past. Just last nite, we got to talking and I found out that he has 3 kids from a previous relationship. He told me that they've been apart for only 4 months now and swares that they'd never get back together, and that I'm not a "rebound". I'm 26 and don't have kids, and I've kind of gotten used to the lifestyle I have now. He's telling me he loves me and likes me a lot; thing is he's only known me for 2 weeks! So basically he's getting a bit clingy, and has 3 kids...I don't know if this can actually work! I'd appreciate your thoughts! Until he has divorce papers in his hand I would treat him like the plague.
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