polywog Posted February 15, 2007 Posted February 15, 2007 Forget the astroglide... look at her the right way and she'll take you for a ride down Niagara Falls. I got the impression that He was asking Her for the digits.
magichands Posted February 15, 2007 Posted February 15, 2007 I got the impression that He was asking Her for the digits. I guess I can be slow sometimes. I wish I had a more penetrating intellect. It's always good to use lubrication when submitting yourself to a prostate massage. Good call.
polywog Posted February 15, 2007 Posted February 15, 2007 I guess I can be slow sometimes. I wish I had a more penetrating intellect. It's always good to use lubrication when submitting yourself to a prostate massage. Good call. Yes, I'm in a pretty high League, I guess, which makes it so hard to find dates. Don't forget to wash your hands, don't want to get that keyboard sticky.
Green Posted February 15, 2007 Posted February 15, 2007 Amen to that Lethal. Too bad it's always up to the guy, huh? Maybe if the girls had a bit more experience trying to make all the first moves, they'd be a bit more understanding. No one said life was gona be easy, but damn! Lethal sounds depressed, you just make a move if you want it. I mean even if a girl did make a first move you'd still have to put yourself out there at some point. For example a girl says to you did you get a hair cut looks good, would you say something back and risk getting rejected I mean she could be like hey I was just being nice or what ever or she could really be into you. The truth is people dont let you down when you dont expect to much. If you ask some girl who caught your eyes attention for her number and she says no, well that fine you didnt even know her yet. as for Lethal ask that girl you like out now why would you hold off for the last day of work to do it if this is how you feel about her.
Author l-o-s-t Posted February 15, 2007 Author Posted February 15, 2007 For a girl to make the first move (and I mean the FIRST move) is not so much about saving myself from rejection / putting myself out there, etc. It's more about them conveying their feelings to me, rather than me to them. Since we always have to make the first move, the girl is always on the receiving end and ultimately ends up either rejecting or going along with an already expressed feeling. For example, If I were to approach a girl and introduce myself, it would be obvious that I had some kind of interest in her. It's then up to her to decide whether to play along or not. The girl never has to put anything out there without already knowing the intention of the other person. Now, while I would LOVE to be in that situation some of the time, it's not the bigger problem. The problem comes with their ability to decide how to react. Yes, 9/10 times I'm sure they just go with how the actually feel - I like you or I don't like you - but what about that 10th time? That's what happened to me. I put myself out there, and took a chance. I don't know how I did it, but it happened. I then proceeded to spend almost 2 years trying to make a relationship with a girl I later found out had NO interest in me, despite acting as though she had some degree of interest all along. Yes I was young and rather naive, but it left a lasting impression none the less. I have no trust in girls anymore - I can't trust that what they are expressing is what they honestly feel because they always get to decide how to react! I'm out there trying my damnedest, digging myself deeper and deeper, and she's leading me on the whole time! That's not ordinary rejection - that's cold. Damn cold. So cold I can still feel the chill 3 years later. I never, ever want to have to go through something that convoluted and f*cked up again, and THAT is why I feel they should make the first move sometimes! Perhaps this explains a bit of why I'm so keen on knowing where I'm going before I get there - aka reading eye contact.
Green Posted February 16, 2007 Posted February 16, 2007 first off I dont know how in the world its posible to be tricked for 2 years? I mean alot of girls wont flat out say I dont like you go away dont talk to me, but if a girl constantly turns u down for dates or refuses to kiss you or what ever thats a pretty good sign no matter what you think there sayings. As for you saying you dont trust girls because one girl suposedly led you on... thats silly every girl is different, no two vaginas are ever the same, I mean yes you have to generalize some things to make it easier on yourself but thinking of all girls as untrustworthy makes no sense. I get the sense theres something about you your not telling us... what could that be . fill me in
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