Guest Posted February 12, 2007 Posted February 12, 2007 Hi everyone, well here goes... my boyfriend and I of eight months have just went on a break. First let me give you a bit of a background on us. We met and had this very strong chemistry with eachother a very deep connection. Three months into our relationship we were already looking at wedding rings. We have been pretty strong throughout until this month. This was his idea, not mine, at all. He has been under a lot of stress lately with work and also finishing up his degree at school. Because of this he says he doesn't have time for me anymore, and that he still wants to be with me, but as for now needs to spend time focusing on finishing up these last four months of school. He is very stressed out. I resisted and tried talking with him about it and finally realized I was getting nowhere with him, so I agreed to this supposed 4 month break. We agreed not to see, talk, or anything with other people romantically, because this break is for him to focus on school and work. It has been three days now and I feel miserable. We haven't talked or texted eachother nothing which is the first time in our whole relationship. I hate feeling like this, but have been trying to stay strong and not call and just give him his requested space. My question is, has anyone had similar situations and how did you deal with it? Is this break just an extended break up or is there a chance they really do come back after having their space? I shouldn't call right? HELP! Thanks for reading ...
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