T.O.gurl Posted February 12, 2007 Posted February 12, 2007 Ok so I'm always a little worried when my fiance goes out with his friends or by himself because I know he's a pretty flirtatious guy(although he's never really given me reason not to trust him), at least I've always thought he was. Last night I was out at a bar with some girlfriends and this girl who is friends with one of my girlfriends comes up and starts talking to us. Anyways I am introduced to this other girl as so and so's fiancee. This girl then says "Oh yeah I met your fiance a while ago out with some friends. Really nice guy but aloof around girls." I didn't really know how I should take this but should I be happy about this? Apparently this girl was out with some of my fiance's friends and he happened to stop by and chatted with them for a bit.
Star Gazer Posted February 12, 2007 Posted February 12, 2007 "Really nice guy" and "aloof" don't seem to mix well... I would think she was covering for his bad behavior. But that's just me.
Author T.O.gurl Posted February 12, 2007 Author Posted February 12, 2007 Really? Well when she heard who I was she said in a nice way "Oh yeah yeah,nice guy,aloof around all the girls..and then something like "we figured he must have a love at home"(it was really loud in the bar so I couldn't exactly make out what she was saying). She didn't really seem to be hinting he acted badly but I guess I could be wrong.
guin_girl Posted February 12, 2007 Posted February 12, 2007 "Really nice guy" and "aloof" don't seem to mix well... I don't think it's that bad... he may have been polite and friendly to her making him a nice guy, but aloof in that he wasn't all that interested in talking to her...
Author T.O.gurl Posted February 12, 2007 Author Posted February 12, 2007 I don't think it's that bad... he may have been polite and friendly to her making him a nice guy, but aloof in that he wasn't all that interested in talking to her... That's what I'm saying. Should I be happy that he apparently wasn't interested in the other girls with this group because he knows he's got me?
guin_girl Posted February 12, 2007 Posted February 12, 2007 I can't answer that. I've had problems with cheaters, and they were the "nice guys". But I would say, unless you have proof that he is cheat, you have to let him be him... Flirty by nature isn't a bad thing, only if they follow through with it. Personally, I would think that if he was doing something inappropriate, she would have just said she met him and he seemed nice and left it at that. There would be no reason to add the "aloof" part in my opinion.
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