gman123 Posted February 11, 2007 Posted February 11, 2007 Hi everyone, I'll try to stay brief with the story.... I bought this girl I had been dating for 5-6 months an iPod for her birthday. things were going great (it seemed). Not even 2 weeks later she suddenly started acted strange and became very cold and distant. she refused to talk about it though. Finally she opens up and says that an ex had contacted her and that she was confused. I tried several times to get her to meet up, finally we did and I didn't mention anything at all about her behavior, etc and we had a great time. But following that it was back to her being distant and making it pretty clear she would not initiate anything in terms of us getting together so I tried many many times to do so and she would either be sick, or busy or whatever else. So I gave up and stopped contacting her completely. she continues to send me brief e-mails, almost "feelers" to see if she can get me hooked again. I guess this is a two-part post: 1. She never offered to return the iPod to me. Am I being unreasonable to think that she should have done so considering that she was obviously in contact with her ex and had no problem throwing me out of her life completely? 2. What is this girl's deal? Her reasons that she gave me for changing so suddenly (other than the ex and whatever he told her) were extremely petty. She is a terrible communicator as evidenced by her inability to talk to me about anything. I want this to be a learning experience but at this point I'm sort of baffled. Why does she bother to continue e-mailing/texting me every so often? It's just vague, generic messages but regardless of what they say why does she send them?? thanks for any feedback/thoughts
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